Should I ask out my friend?

This is kinda long but it all started when this girl (17F) and I (17F) were in color guard together as freshman. We were really good friends and we were kinda close throughout freshman year. During a color guard competition sophomore year, she came out to me as lesbian and I came out to her as bisexual. After that I started to develop some feelings for her but I was too afraid to ask her out so I kept those feelings to myself. Unfortunately, she started dating somebody else who we were both friends with. They dated for about a year and I didn't really talk to her during that time because it hurt to see her with someone else. In August, she randomly texted me and asked me to hang out. I said sure cause it had been a few months since I had seen her and it was our senior year plus I had pretty much gotten over my feelings for her. While we were talking she told me that she had broken up with her girlfriend. We have been hanging out a lot lately and I started to have feelings for her again. This time I actually want to ask her out but I'm worried that I will lose my friend. I also don't really know if she likes me too or if she's real friendly and I'm just imagining things I would like to happen.



Submitted September 26, 2019 at 11:55PM

This is kinda long but it all started when this girl (17F) and I (17F) were in color guard together as freshman. We were really good friends and we were kinda close throughout freshman year. During a color guard competition sophomore year, she came out to me as lesbian and I came out to her as bisexual. After that I started to develop some feelings for her but I was too afraid to ask her out so I kept those feelings to myself. Unfortunately, she started dating somebody else who we were both friends with. They dated for about a year and I didn't really talk to her during that time because it hurt to see her with someone else. In August, she randomly texted me and asked me to hang out. I said sure cause it had been a few months since I had seen her and it was our senior year plus I had pretty much gotten over my feelings for her. While we were talking she told me that she had broken up with her girlfriend. We have been hanging out a lot lately and I started to have feelings for her again. This time I actually want to ask her out but I'm worried that I will lose my friend. I also don't really know if she likes me too or if she's real friendly and I'm just imagining things I would like to happen.

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