I (18F) am in a relationship with MM (20M) and want to better myself

So a little recap of how MM is to me. He's the guy every girl wants. When we met i wasn't over my toxic ex. But we clicked over our first convo. It was so unexpected. He was there for me as a friend. He helped me move on. Respected when i told him that I want to be in a relationship when i can give my 100% which isn't a month after i move on. He waited until i was ready and didn't make me feel guilty in the slightest that he was waiting for me. And things were never weird between us in that time too. He's so so good in the cars back seat ;). Respects that we're not going to take the last step anytime soon. Never complains. Tells me everyday that i am a queen and that he wants to marry me. Can't wait till our degrees are complete so we can get married. Respects my parents so much. When my sister caused trouble for us and i thought he'd leave, he fully supported me and stayed. He makes me smile every time I talk to him. He's my best friend.This is the healthiest relationship I've been in. He makes me a better person. Makes me grow intellectually too.

However, he's a way better partner than i am. I try so hard and ik i make him happy but i want to make him happier. I recently ruined his birthday because of my mismanagement too and he consoled me that it's okay. I want help. Please tell me how to make him happier. I do write him spontaneous notes, make him cute edits, post about him, compliment him, get him food registers things i feel like he needs. Give him space when he asks. Never really complain. Try to understand him as much as possible. But i want to make him happier. Because i know that the way he makes me feel is the best feeling in the whole world. And i love him so much. I want him to feel that too. Please help me <3



Submitted December 29, 2022 at 12:08AM

So a little recap of how MM is to me. He's the guy every girl wants. When we met i wasn't over my toxic ex. But we clicked over our first convo. It was so unexpected. He was there for me as a friend. He helped me move on. Respected when i told him that I want to be in a relationship when i can give my 100% which isn't a month after i move on. He waited until i was ready and didn't make me feel guilty in the slightest that he was waiting for me. And things were never weird between us in that time too. He's so so good in the cars back seat ;). Respects that we're not going to take the last step anytime soon. Never complains. Tells me everyday that i am a queen and that he wants to marry me. Can't wait till our degrees are complete so we can get married. Respects my parents so much. When my sister caused trouble for us and i thought he'd leave, he fully supported me and stayed. He makes me smile every time I talk to him. He's my best friend.This is the healthiest relationship I've been in. He makes me a better person. Makes me grow intellectually too.However, he's a way better partner than i am. I try so hard and ik i make him happy but i want to make him happier. I recently ruined his birthday because of my mismanagement too and he consoled me that it's okay. I want help. Please tell me how to make him happier. I do write him spontaneous notes, make him cute edits, post about him, compliment him, get him food registers things i feel like he needs. Give him space when he asks. Never really complain. Try to understand him as much as possible. But i want to make him happier. Because i know that the way he makes me feel is the best feeling in the whole world. And i love him so much. I want him to feel that too. Please help me <3
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