Need advice and honest opinions

So I have been struggling with this mentally as of late and feel like typing it out, if nothing else I’ll at least be able to get it out of my system.

So I matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, we both go to the same university. We talked for about a month, perhaps a little more before actually meeting up. It just never worked out with timing and vacations and such, nonetheless when we did hang out it was really fun. We watched movies, talked, and made out in the end. I feel like we had a genuine connection, which I don’t think I’ve had with a girl yet, and it made me feel really warm inside. That was around 3 weeks ago, and since then we hung out once more and then went on vacation which we just got back from. While on vaca we texted back and forth, some days more than others cause she isn’t a great texter which is okay. We also FaceTimed once throughout the week.

So there are key points of why I’m worried about this. The first is that I know we aren’t technically exclusive yet, which I was and still am planning on changing because I really like her. I saw that she’s edited her tinder with recent pics she’s posted on her insta, which kinda hurt but I get it cause we aren’t exclusive. Furthermore she’s done this thing a few times where she’s added me to her priv story to take me off a few days later, I attributed this to attention getting but idk. The most recent occurrence that has me stressing happened today, I asked if she was down for grabbing dinner and she said she had plans already and she was sorry, providing no alternate date. I decided screw it and asked if she was free tomorrow, and I am still awaiting a response as I type this now.

What should/ shouldn’t I be doing, I need some advice. Thanks y’all

Submitted November 30, 2022 at 01:20AM

So I have been struggling with this mentally as of late and feel like typing it out, if nothing else I’ll at least be able to get it out of my system.So I matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, we both go to the same university. We talked for about a month, perhaps a little more before actually meeting up. It just never worked out with timing and vacations and such, nonetheless when we did hang out it was really fun. We watched movies, talked, and made out in the end. I feel like we had a genuine connection, which I don’t think I’ve had with a girl yet, and it made me feel really warm inside. That was around 3 weeks ago, and since then we hung out once more and then went on vacation which we just got back from. While on vaca we texted back and forth, some days more than others cause she isn’t a great texter which is okay. We also FaceTimed once throughout the week.So there are key points of why I’m worried about this. The first is that I know we aren’t technically exclusive yet, which I was and still am planning on changing because I really like her. I saw that she’s edited her tinder with recent pics she’s posted on her insta, which kinda hurt but I get it cause we aren’t exclusive. Furthermore she’s done this thing a few times where she’s added me to her priv story to take me off a few days later, I attributed this to attention getting but idk. The most recent occurrence that has me stressing happened today, I asked if she was down for grabbing dinner and she said she had plans already and she was sorry, providing no alternate date. I decided screw it and asked if she was free tomorrow, and I am still awaiting a response as I type this now.What should/ shouldn’t I be doing, I need some advice. Thanks y’all