Please Help

Hello,

I am 24M that goes on tons of dates, like yesterday I had two. So its not problem for me to get dates through OLD. But I get rarely second dates. The problems is that I just go to these dates for the sake of going, not really seeing if I really like the girls I go out. Well, I never know if I like them physically, I just go because its better than nothing. When the date comes I just feel that its forced, because I just go because its better not to go rather because I like them physically. I do have some problems being witty, I can hold conversations, I can 'make moves' but its very difficult because I rather dont feel confortable at dates. I know that I like girls, but I only have been atracted to 2 girls in my life. I just dont know what to do: I feel rejected, idiot, not fun, a loser because even if I try to carry the conversation, the girls just dont seem into me. Neither am I. Pls Help.

Submitted October 13, 2022 at 12:15AM

Hello,I am 24M that goes on tons of dates, like yesterday I had two. So its not problem for me to get dates through OLD. But I get rarely second dates. The problems is that I just go to these dates for the sake of going, not really seeing if I really like the girls I go out. Well, I never know if I like them physically, I just go because its better than nothing. When the date comes I just feel that its forced, because I just go because its better not to go rather because I like them physically. I do have some problems being witty, I can hold conversations, I can 'make moves' but its very difficult because I rather dont feel confortable at dates. I know that I like girls, but I only have been atracted to 2 girls in my life. I just dont know what to do: I feel rejected, idiot, not fun, a loser because even if I try to carry the conversation, the girls just dont seem into me. Neither am I. Pls Help.