My [20sF] sibling [20sM] ripped apart my luggage days before I am due to move away. Should I continue a relationship with him after this?

Keeping where I am going vague as he has reddit.

I am moving out of the country in a few days. I was teasing my brother with funny GIF pics and other things. He never told me it was getting too much, or id have stopped.

Now heres the event: I was dancing in front of his room then 1 hr later he opened my locked door ( with a coin). He came in, grabbed my luggage and said " I wanna see if you have anything prohibited by TSA" with a smile. He began to throw all my stuff out of the luggage and I begged him to stop but he pushed me away and kept pulling bags, socks, toiletries, and threw them all around my room. I cried and was upset. My mom came in the room but did nothing as if she tried hed get mad and dump the whole luggage.

He in general isnt a good person. Lazy, judgemental, abusive to my mom. He is walking the fine line to getting kicked out. He lied that he was studying, which is why he destroyed my luggage. He was even playing video games when I was dancing by his room. So there was no reason to do what he did and i had no warning. Now I need to double check my luggage to make sure he didnt put anything in it to get me into trouble

I only have a few days left in the USA but I am not sure I want to continue a relationship with him. What do I do?

TLDR: Brother destroyed my luggage days before I am to move oversees. He lied about the reason why he did it, and I dont really want a relationship with him anymore. What do I do? Am lost.

Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:11PM

Keeping where I am going vague as he has reddit.I am moving out of the country in a few days. I was teasing my brother with funny GIF pics and other things. He never told me it was getting too much, or id have stopped.Now heres the event: I was dancing in front of his room then 1 hr later he opened my locked door ( with a coin). He came in, grabbed my luggage and said " I wanna see if you have anything prohibited by TSA" with a smile. He began to throw all my stuff out of the luggage and I begged him to stop but he pushed me away and kept pulling bags, socks, toiletries, and threw them all around my room. I cried and was upset. My mom came in the room but did nothing as if she tried hed get mad and dump the whole luggage.He in general isnt a good person. Lazy, judgemental, abusive to my mom. He is walking the fine line to getting kicked out. He lied that he was studying, which is why he destroyed my luggage. He was even playing video games when I was dancing by his room. So there was no reason to do what he did and i had no warning. Now I need to double check my luggage to make sure he didnt put anything in it to get me into troubleI only have a few days left in the USA but I am not sure I want to continue a relationship with him. What do I do?TLDR: Brother destroyed my luggage days before I am to move oversees. He lied about the reason why he did it, and I dont really want a relationship with him anymore. What do I do? Am lost.