I M22 just went on a date with F 17 and don’t know how to feel about it

This is the first time ive dated someone who was younger than 18 and i’m not sure how to feel about it. Anyone who has gone through this, i would love to hear your story and things i should know.

We went to a local Foodhall. Even though she’s under the legal drinking age i bought her a glass of wine. I had seen on her social media that she had that before and i asked if her parents were ok with that, she said that it was ok. She only had 1 glass and had ice tea after. She offered to pay for my next glass i kindly refused at first, couple minutes later she went to the toilet and asked again and i said yes and explained her that that never happened to me. She said she thinks its normal, which i really liked about her, she was raised well. We really talked and laughed alot, we were holding hands and being flirty, the chemistry was there and we kissed there. 5 hours later she offered me to bring me home, that was a first too.( I came by public transport and was planning to walk her home since its close by. ) She came to the foodhal on her scooter so we walked hand in hand to her scooter. Once we got to my place she was very cold so i offered her to come inside to warm up. I changed clothes quickly and we hugged and kissed on the bed. Things started getting a little hotter. Hands were going places other than her and my face and hair. We were enjoying ourselves. I even asked her just to be sure she was alright she said “yes otherwise i wouldve left”. I started kissing her tummy and working up to her chest. I asked her again if it was ok if i continued. She said yes again. I just felt the need to make sure everything was with her consent. After that i told her that this was not how i had planned our date at all but we went with the flow and i didnt want to go any further than this. She agreed that she loved the date and it was ok with her what we were doing and if she didnt have to go home we wouldve definitely gone further since that wouldve been ok with her she said. I told her i wouldve loved to also but would prefer to get to know eachother better first and go on a couple more dates first before we started progressing down that road. She agreed and wanted to see me asap so we already planned the next date kinda. I have a couple questions about how im handling this ok ? Im very self confident but something about her being under aged changes a lot about me in these kind of scenarios. I have no idea if im being too cautious about this whole thing or not. I would love some opinions on this please

From what ive seen so far she’s a great girl and i would love to get to know her more

Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:25AM

This is the first time ive dated someone who was younger than 18 and i’m not sure how to feel about it. Anyone who has gone through this, i would love to hear your story and things i should know.We went to a local Foodhall. Even though she’s under the legal drinking age i bought her a glass of wine. I had seen on her social media that she had that before and i asked if her parents were ok with that, she said that it was ok. She only had 1 glass and had ice tea after. She offered to pay for my next glass i kindly refused at first, couple minutes later she went to the toilet and asked again and i said yes and explained her that that never happened to me. She said she thinks its normal, which i really liked about her, she was raised well. We really talked and laughed alot, we were holding hands and being flirty, the chemistry was there and we kissed there. 5 hours later she offered me to bring me home, that was a first too.( I came by public transport and was planning to walk her home since its close by. ) She came to the foodhal on her scooter so we walked hand in hand to her scooter. Once we got to my place she was very cold so i offered her to come inside to warm up. I changed clothes quickly and we hugged and kissed on the bed. Things started getting a little hotter. Hands were going places other than her and my face and hair. We were enjoying ourselves. I even asked her just to be sure she was alright she said “yes otherwise i wouldve left”. I started kissing her tummy and working up to her chest. I asked her again if it was ok if i continued. She said yes again. I just felt the need to make sure everything was with her consent. After that i told her that this was not how i had planned our date at all but we went with the flow and i didnt want to go any further than this. She agreed that she loved the date and it was ok with her what we were doing and if she didnt have to go home we wouldve definitely gone further since that wouldve been ok with her she said. I told her i wouldve loved to also but would prefer to get to know eachother better first and go on a couple more dates first before we started progressing down that road. She agreed and wanted to see me asap so we already planned the next date kinda. I have a couple questions about how im handling this ok ? Im very self confident but something about her being under aged changes a lot about me in these kind of scenarios. I have no idea if im being too cautious about this whole thing or not. I would love some opinions on this pleaseFrom what ive seen so far she’s a great girl and i would love to get to know her more