A volatile situation :/

I(M19) have been feeling even more and more frustrated ever since I broke up like 9 months ago. Rn I have a healthy social life,hit the gym a few times a week, work at a local restaurant and study in senior high etc etc...but I haven't had any luck with women ever since the breakup (mostly with getting hardly any matches and keeping up a conversation on tinder) and like I said it seems to get even more and more frustrating.

I've tried almost everything from cheesy pickup lines to flattering. Being as original as possible has shown most success but the thing is that no one seems to truly get interested in me and I almost never get proper responses. (Or just dumb ones like lmao, xdd, ok, yup etc...)

Thanks to my job, It feels much easier for me to handle social situations face to face and I really CAN make people laugh hard if I want to. I live in a big city (in Finland) with bunch of other nice girls and I get along with almost anyone but the online conversations never seem to last. It sometimes feels like no one even cares and then I start feeling like neither should I :/

So, I'm really lacking tips on how to keep The conversations going and I'm running out of my own ideas pretty quick here. What kinds of approaching techniques and styles should I try? and how NOT to creep anyone out with text but still remain flirty, original and caring at the same time? If you need more info conserning my situation, I'll keep responding :)

(Ps. Not a native English speaker so don't judge for grammar mistakes😘)

Submitted December 12, 2019 at 11:47PM

I(M19) have been feeling even more and more frustrated ever since I broke up like 9 months ago. Rn I have a healthy social life,hit the gym a few times a week, work at a local restaurant and study in senior high etc etc...but I haven't had any luck with women ever since the breakup (mostly with getting hardly any matches and keeping up a conversation on tinder) and like I said it seems to get even more and more frustrating.I've tried almost everything from cheesy pickup lines to flattering. Being as original as possible has shown most success but the thing is that no one seems to truly get interested in me and I almost never get proper responses. (Or just dumb ones like lmao, xdd, ok, yup etc...)Thanks to my job, It feels much easier for me to handle social situations face to face and I really CAN make people laugh hard if I want to. I live in a big city (in Finland) with bunch of other nice girls and I get along with almost anyone but the online conversations never seem to last. It sometimes feels like no one even cares and then I start feeling like neither should I :/So, I'm really lacking tips on how to keep The conversations going and I'm running out of my own ideas pretty quick here. What kinds of approaching techniques and styles should I try? and how NOT to creep anyone out with text but still remain flirty, original and caring at the same time? If you need more info conserning my situation, I'll keep responding :)(Ps. Not a native English speaker so don't judge for grammar mistakes😘)