Went on a first date with this guy. Is he interested?

Hii, so I went on a first date with this guy I met on tinder. We had been talking for over two weeks and we made plans to go out to eat last night. I went to meet him there but the first place we went to was actually closed because they're relocating.. so we ended up going somewhere else and he drove both of us there. He said how he wasn't really hungry because he was nervous, which is exactly how I felt, so we just ordered appetizers. On the date I could tell he was nervous and kind of rambled and tripped over his words a bit. It was easy to talk about things and we found some things that we had in common and laughed a lot together and he even brought up and remembered little things that I had told him before. When we were finishing up he asked me if I wanted to go to the store with him because he had to get some things so then we went there and kept talking and laughed some more. However, this is the part I'm confused about.. he was driving me back to my car and I said something about how I have to drive home and he said "oh, you're going to go home?" And I said yeah and he said "well would you like to come watch a movie at my place? Or save it for another time?" He doesn't seem like the kind of guy that was just trying to get me into bed with him.. but I dont know. So I said we could just save it for another time. He took me to my car then and I told him about something that's wrong with it and he wanted to see so he got out and looked at it. Then I started saying goodbye and got up and hugged him and he said "so.. we'll do this another time?" And I said yes and I got in my car and sat in there for a minute to play music and I noticed he was there until after I left.

I didn't get a message from him until like 2 or 3 hours later and he said "thank you for going to dinner with me". He also messaged me saying "good morning b" this morning and has been talking to me throughout the day. So does the whole "wanna go back to my place and watch a movie" seem like he wanted sex? Or does it seem like he just wanted to spend more time with me?



Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:13AM

Hii, so I went on a first date with this guy I met on tinder. We had been talking for over two weeks and we made plans to go out to eat last night. I went to meet him there but the first place we went to was actually closed because they're relocating.. so we ended up going somewhere else and he drove both of us there. He said how he wasn't really hungry because he was nervous, which is exactly how I felt, so we just ordered appetizers. On the date I could tell he was nervous and kind of rambled and tripped over his words a bit. It was easy to talk about things and we found some things that we had in common and laughed a lot together and he even brought up and remembered little things that I had told him before. When we were finishing up he asked me if I wanted to go to the store with him because he had to get some things so then we went there and kept talking and laughed some more. However, this is the part I'm confused about.. he was driving me back to my car and I said something about how I have to drive home and he said "oh, you're going to go home?" And I said yeah and he said "well would you like to come watch a movie at my place? Or save it for another time?" He doesn't seem like the kind of guy that was just trying to get me into bed with him.. but I dont know. So I said we could just save it for another time. He took me to my car then and I told him about something that's wrong with it and he wanted to see so he got out and looked at it. Then I started saying goodbye and got up and hugged him and he said "so.. we'll do this another time?" And I said yes and I got in my car and sat in there for a minute to play music and I noticed he was there until after I left.I didn't get a message from him until like 2 or 3 hours later and he said "thank you for going to dinner with me". He also messaged me saying "good morning b" this morning and has been talking to me throughout the day. So does the whole "wanna go back to my place and watch a movie" seem like he wanted sex? Or does it seem like he just wanted to spend more time with me?

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