Yesterday I finally got her name

I have an enormous crush on a girl that works at my local Starbucks and I'm trying my hardest to form a friendship with her, which she's also expressed wanting. When I first met her we talked and talked about dyeing and bleaching hair because I have vivid pink hair. Not a romantic topic but I felt a lot of chemistry. Sadly I never exchanged any contact info with her because I was on a date with someone and couldn't spend too long talking to her.

I kept going back to that Starbucks in hopes we'd meet and after several weeks we did. She was excited to see me and asked if I'd come back sometime soon. Again I had to go back to my date.

That was my sign she liked me too at least in a friendship sort of way. I continued visiting the starbucks after that looking for her but no such luck. Yesterday I was told by her coworkers that she works closing shift. I apologized for being so interested in a girl I still hardly knew but they were kind and approving saying they had the sense that we were friends, that she was fond of me etc. They had big smiles on their faces when they told me about her and I got the sense they thought my affection for her was quite cute

I finally learned her name. I'm planning to walk in a day or two with my phone number and I'm going to try again to finally make something happen. I've stopped going on dates with anyone else because I only feel that certain chemistry with her. I'm hopeful but I'm keeping my expectations low.

Submitted January 17, 2020 at 11:32PM

I have an enormous crush on a girl that works at my local Starbucks and I'm trying my hardest to form a friendship with her, which she's also expressed wanting. When I first met her we talked and talked about dyeing and bleaching hair because I have vivid pink hair. Not a romantic topic but I felt a lot of chemistry. Sadly I never exchanged any contact info with her because I was on a date with someone and couldn't spend too long talking to her.I kept going back to that Starbucks in hopes we'd meet and after several weeks we did. She was excited to see me and asked if I'd come back sometime soon. Again I had to go back to my date.That was my sign she liked me too at least in a friendship sort of way. I continued visiting the starbucks after that looking for her but no such luck. Yesterday I was told by her coworkers that she works closing shift. I apologized for being so interested in a girl I still hardly knew but they were kind and approving saying they had the sense that we were friends, that she was fond of me etc. They had big smiles on their faces when they told me about her and I got the sense they thought my affection for her was quite cuteI finally learned her name. I'm planning to walk in a day or two with my phone number and I'm going to try again to finally make something happen. I've stopped going on dates with anyone else because I only feel that certain chemistry with her. I'm hopeful but I'm keeping my expectations low.