I am new do this I need help

I have been in a relationship for about month and half. When we first started talking we would hangout every night and go on dates for about month. She was always excited to see me and I was the same way. Before we started dating she was not ready because she just left a pretty bad relationship. I told her I could wait and she loved that and said “I think the one will wait for me”We would do sexual things about every week or less or multiple times a week. We would talk dirty to each other and just play around. Almost every night she would hold me from leaving and start kissing me so I would not leave. After one night I noticed she changed a little bit over a couple weeks. She was not talking as much and wasn’t as touchy as before. I would try to talk dirty sometimes but had no effect. When I leave now sometimes we kiss but she ask me stay longer. She says she is just tired but she is tired all the time now as before we would stay up till 3 am sometimes. I asked if everything was ok and that I was feeling something and she almost started crying. We have had two little minor fights which have been solved. I always apologize for my mistakes and talk about them. One problem I thought of was I try to help her a little to much. She is very independent and doesn’t not like asking for help. I am a helping person and help everyone I can and she is the same way. I want to ask again if everything is ok but I fear she might cry or something. I see her more than a girlfriend, she is one of my only friends I have because all of my friends moved away for college. I always let her hangout with her friends but then that leaves me thinking about if I did something wrong. I don’t want to look needy or looking for attention. I just have nothing to do but hangout with her. One time I sat for 4 hours When she was getting a tattoo.This weekend we are going to her grandparents house for the weekend. I am the only guy she has brought to there house. She says I am the only nice she has date and trust me on this. So should I just ask her again if everything is ok or are these the high and lows of a relationship? I just really don’t want to mess this up. Any thoughts help

Submitted October 16, 2019 at 11:50PM

I have been in a relationship for about month and half. When we first started talking we would hangout every night and go on dates for about month. She was always excited to see me and I was the same way. Before we started dating she was not ready because she just left a pretty bad relationship. I told her I could wait and she loved that and said “I think the one will wait for me”We would do sexual things about every week or less or multiple times a week. We would talk dirty to each other and just play around. Almost every night she would hold me from leaving and start kissing me so I would not leave. After one night I noticed she changed a little bit over a couple weeks. She was not talking as much and wasn’t as touchy as before. I would try to talk dirty sometimes but had no effect. When I leave now sometimes we kiss but she ask me stay longer. She says she is just tired but she is tired all the time now as before we would stay up till 3 am sometimes. I asked if everything was ok and that I was feeling something and she almost started crying. We have had two little minor fights which have been solved. I always apologize for my mistakes and talk about them. One problem I thought of was I try to help her a little to much. She is very independent and doesn’t not like asking for help. I am a helping person and help everyone I can and she is the same way. I want to ask again if everything is ok but I fear she might cry or something. I see her more than a girlfriend, she is one of my only friends I have because all of my friends moved away for college. I always let her hangout with her friends but then that leaves me thinking about if I did something wrong. I don’t want to look needy or looking for attention. I just have nothing to do but hangout with her. One time I sat for 4 hours When she was getting a tattoo.This weekend we are going to her grandparents house for the weekend. I am the only guy she has brought to there house. She says I am the only nice she has date and trust me on this. So should I just ask her again if everything is ok or are these the high and lows of a relationship? I just really don’t want to mess this up. Any thoughts help