Wife calling me "daddy" has...somewhat escalated.

After years of really unsatisfying sex and mismatched libidos, my wife and I (both late 20s) have finally gotten to a good place with sex, and I'm over the moon for it. I'm also very cautious with bringing up some things because I don't want to be ungrateful (just to preface).

Since she's opened up more, sex has been great. Handcuffs, leg restraints, pet play, etc. Some of it admittedly not my thing but I do for her anyway. One thing she does a lot of recently is calling me daddy. Don't get me wrong: absolutely here for it. But the last couple weeks it has...somewhat escalated.

Quick preface: when she gets really into it, she opens up a lot. She's talked about wanting to fuck women while I fuck her, wanting me to fuck her in front of her friends, or online or something. Everytime I've brought it up outside of sex (as it does interest me) and she embarrassedly brushes it off and says she never said it. So I now tend to ignore that.

We had the house to ourselves for the first time in a year or so (her dad lives with us), so we made good use of it. Being louder, not worrying about the bed creaking, etc. So as I'm back there doing my thing, she's moaning out "daddy". Nothing new, lots of fun. But the she throws me a curveball and almost screams out "come on, fuck your daughter, cum inside your sweet little daughter".

Now, being called daddy...I'm okay with because (to me) it's not about being her actual dad as role-playing. But the daughter thing really threw me for a loop, and I'm not sure if I'm super into it. I gave it another shot a couple times after but if I'm being honest, even her calling me "daddy" kind of rubs me the wrong way.

I'm hesitant to bring it up because she's not great at handing criticism and will immediately throw "I thought this is what you wanted our sex life to be like" at me again. I don't know. Should I just let her do her thing and ignore it? I try to accommodate all her kinks and fetishes (even if that's one sided) but this one feels a bit too far for me.

What do you folks think?



Submitted August 10, 2021 at 11:32PM

After years of really unsatisfying sex and mismatched libidos, my wife and I (both late 20s) have finally gotten to a good place with sex, and I'm over the moon for it. I'm also very cautious with bringing up some things because I don't want to be ungrateful (just to preface).Since she's opened up more, sex has been great. Handcuffs, leg restraints, pet play, etc. Some of it admittedly not my thing but I do for her anyway. One thing she does a lot of recently is calling me daddy. Don't get me wrong: absolutely here for it. But the last couple weeks it has...somewhat escalated.Quick preface: when she gets really into it, she opens up a lot. She's talked about wanting to fuck women while I fuck her, wanting me to fuck her in front of her friends, or online or something. Everytime I've brought it up outside of sex (as it does interest me) and she embarrassedly brushes it off and says she never said it. So I now tend to ignore that.We had the house to ourselves for the first time in a year or so (her dad lives with us), so we made good use of it. Being louder, not worrying about the bed creaking, etc. So as I'm back there doing my thing, she's moaning out "daddy". Nothing new, lots of fun. But the she throws me a curveball and almost screams out "come on, fuck your daughter, cum inside your sweet little daughter".Now, being called daddy...I'm okay with because (to me) it's not about being her actual dad as role-playing. But the daughter thing really threw me for a loop, and I'm not sure if I'm super into it. I gave it another shot a couple times after but if I'm being honest, even her calling me "daddy" kind of rubs me the wrong way.I'm hesitant to bring it up because she's not great at handing criticism and will immediately throw "I thought this is what you wanted our sex life to be like" at me again. I don't know. Should I just let her do her thing and ignore it? I try to accommodate all her kinks and fetishes (even if that's one sided) but this one feels a bit too far for me.What do you folks think?
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