How do i "accidentally" on purpose run into someone without looking like a creep?

A while ago i was at an exposition of my fathers art, there was a big crowd of which most were friends of my dad and mum. One of the families there i knew quite well but hadnt seen them in such a long time so only the sons recognised me. I went out for a smoke and they were there and we had a small conversation together and there was a girl with them. I asked how she knew the boys and said they are her brothers. I was mortified to say the least but kept my composure. I had completely forgotten that she exists but hey who is really busy with girls when they have to throw waterballoons at eachother? She turned into this beautiful young lady. We didnt talk very mich caise it was raining and i said go inside cause youll get cold. The rest of the day i didnt talk to her cause i was just dead tired and i just wanted to go home but couldnt since we carpooled there. My father asked me how i liked and i said i was bored, which i later apologized for to him, while she sat right next to me. Her mother offered to help me get a job, and when i was over at their restaurant i told her that i have a little crush on her daughter and she said that a lot of people do. Wtf is that suposed to mean? She also said that she didnt have any idea of who i was before she came to know that it was me. Idk if thats good or not. Now its been over a month and i still want to meet her but i have no idea how to get in contact with her. So my question is how do get her number/on a date without stalking her and being creepy? Thanks

TLDR met a girl i used to know and now i want to take her out but dont have her number only where her parents work. How do get in contact with her without stalking her?



Submitted April 05, 2019 at 07:57PM

A while ago i was at an exposition of my fathers art, there was a big crowd of which most were friends of my dad and mum. One of the families there i knew quite well but hadnt seen them in such a long time so only the sons recognised me. I went out for a smoke and they were there and we had a small conversation together and there was a girl with them. I asked how she knew the boys and said they are her brothers. I was mortified to say the least but kept my composure. I had completely forgotten that she exists but hey who is really busy with girls when they have to throw waterballoons at eachother? She turned into this beautiful young lady. We didnt talk very mich caise it was raining and i said go inside cause youll get cold. The rest of the day i didnt talk to her cause i was just dead tired and i just wanted to go home but couldnt since we carpooled there. My father asked me how i liked and i said i was bored, which i later apologized for to him, while she sat right next to me. Her mother offered to help me get a job, and when i was over at their restaurant i told her that i have a little crush on her daughter and she said that a lot of people do. Wtf is that suposed to mean? She also said that she didnt have any idea of who i was before she came to know that it was me. Idk if thats good or not. Now its been over a month and i still want to meet her but i have no idea how to get in contact with her. So my question is how do get her number/on a date without stalking her and being creepy? ThanksTLDR met a girl i used to know and now i want to take her out but dont have her number only where her parents work. How do get in contact with her without stalking her?
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