I don’t want to talk to her anymore

I (24F) love my mom (62F) dearly but she can be a huge b*tch to me! She will talk down on me, tell me I suck her dry and threatens that she will kick me out of the house. I currently live with her but I don’t know how much longer I can take it, if I could afford I would move out in a heart beat. She’s the suffocating type of mom, she calls me at least 5 times a day and every time she calls she doesn’t forget to tell me to clean even when there is nothing to clean. I just can’t live like this without being driven insane! I don’t know what to do, we don’t get along and she stresses me out so much. I almost don’t want to talk to her and just ignore her when she is around me. I’m an adult but she treats me like I’m an irresponsible teenager. I could go on and on about this situation but I’ll leave it at that, I’m not even sure if this post is me asking for advice or just to vent lol. She really is effecting my mental health :(.

TLDR : mom drives me insane, I want to move out but I can’t. What should I do to not be driven insane?

Edit: btw I’m in school too.



Submitted April 05, 2019 at 07:25PM

I (24F) love my mom (62F) dearly but she can be a huge b*tch to me! She will talk down on me, tell me I suck her dry and threatens that she will kick me out of the house. I currently live with her but I don’t know how much longer I can take it, if I could afford I would move out in a heart beat. She’s the suffocating type of mom, she calls me at least 5 times a day and every time she calls she doesn’t forget to tell me to clean even when there is nothing to clean. I just can’t live like this without being driven insane! I don’t know what to do, we don’t get along and she stresses me out so much. I almost don’t want to talk to her and just ignore her when she is around me. I’m an adult but she treats me like I’m an irresponsible teenager. I could go on and on about this situation but I’ll leave it at that, I’m not even sure if this post is me asking for advice or just to vent lol. She really is effecting my mental health :(.TLDR : mom drives me insane, I want to move out but I can’t. What should I do to not be driven insane?Edit: btw I’m in school too.
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