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ReplyDeleteI've been talking to this guy for x time and everything has been going good. Now all of the sudden he hasn't sent me a text for y days. He always texted me. Have I been ghosted?
ReplyDeleteUnless you have tried reaching out yourself and he's ignored it, no. Analyze the dynamic of your relationship and interactions. Is he always pretty much initiating? You guys could be in an imbalanced relationship where one is doing most of the initiation. There's a good chance in that case he's losing interest because he feels like he's putting in most of the effort and you couldn't care less either way. Maybe he's now trying to see if you have some agency and if you're going to initiate - showing you care. Maybe he thinks you're not interested at all in him because of the imbalance and is about to start moving on. Maybe he's in a bad place at the moment or just busy. Maybe he is not interested in you. Send a text yourself and see what happens.
It's a common complain that guys feel like they're the sole driving force moving things forward. Always being the one initiating gets tiresome eventually and it makes you question whether someone actually interested and it's just not you being blind to their signs of disinterest. You have to carry your weight if you're interested. Men wish to feel desired and valued as well.
If he's straight out ignoring your texts, drop your ego and send a check in message to see if he's well and then go on with your life. Do not drop passive aggression in your message. "Nah, I'm not gonna text him. I'm over him" - I'm willing to bet you're not. You still wondering and asking about it in here, tells me you're most likely not. So do yourself a favor and ask him like you'd ask a good friend that all of the sudden isn't acting their usual self. You'd ask how they are, not assume it's about you. You do this for three reasons: 1) You're not assuming the worst and you give him a chance to let you know. 2) You've properly communicated and now you get to judge how he communicates back. 3) You've done everything that's reasonable to expect and it will hopefully give you a peace of mind knowing that.
If there's no answer, move on. If he's giving an answer that sounds like bullshit, judge it yourself. We all like to say we're not glued to our phones, but in most cases we actually are. Ignoring random chatting is one thing, no one has time to partake in some senseless chatting all the time. Ignoring someone's messages of concern is a whole other.
I'm in love with my friend, should I tell him/her? What should I do?
ReplyDeleteFlirt and ask them out on a date. You could bring up the conversation about you guys dating and seeing where things could go. If you ask them out, make sure to use the word "date" so it's completely clear what it is. Don't be vague and expect it to be obvious. It's not, and they're likely to err on the side of caution and assume it's not a date unless specified.
DO NOT dump your feelings on them. You do not have to tell someone you absolutely love them and would have their babies, to show you're interested; especially when you aren't even dating yet. It's just too much, even if they happen to be interested in you. If they are not interested in you, this feelings dump will make your friendship awkward as hell and it will most likely crash and burn. Just ask them for a date. It shows you're romantically interested in them. Life isn't a romantic movie.
If they give you a no, in whatever form, take it as a no and move on. Do not assume they'll change their mind with enough time and commitment from your side. If you've been going out of your way for them, doing way more than you'd do for any other friend, in hopes of wooing them, stop that. If you're doing things together that confuses you about their feelings towards you, talk about it and stop it. If you're too deep in all of it and can't keep your behavior platonic, there's nothing wrong with taking time apart or moving on from the friendship. It's going to suck for both of you but it's also going to be better in the end. Just like a romantic relationship can't be forced, neither can a friendship. Don't stay friends if you're doing it because you "don't want to be an asshole" or because it's some expected fallback. If you're staying friends, it has to be from the sincere wish of being their friend, without any catch. A friendship should overall be positive for both parties. If one is in pain from it, it's time to think things through.
I'm not attractive enough to get a partner. I'm not x, y, z.
ReplyDeleteLeave your computer and look around outside. It's easy to get in a very negative mindset if you base too much on what's written and shared online, especially here on Reddit. If you step outside and look around, you will see various types of people in relationships. You don't have to have a perfect ass or tits, washboard abs, or be 6'. I see all kinds of relationships daily. Relationships people on here talk about as an impossibility.
If you're unhappy about yourself, look into what you can control. In general I'd like to say most people can become more attractive through:
Losing weight and working out some.
Investing in properly fitting clothes.
Getting a real haircut. Hit up a hairdresser that's not the cheapest one around and ask for their opinion. They will have some ideas for things that will work with you.
These things right here will benefit you for way more than just finding a partner as well. You might have been dealt crap cards in life but that doesn't mean you can't do the best with the cards you have. You might see yourself as a potato, but even a potato can become intoxicating.
My friend is dating this guy but the principal found out and wants to put it in an end, but my friend still wants to continue the relationship. All the teachers in her grade know and there's drama everywhere. She's afraid that her parents might know since she's still young. She and her boyfriend love each other very much but will they have to break up? Is there another way to bring down the drama and not cause any breakups and misunderstandings? I would really appreciate you helping since I can't do anything for her but comfort her. I really want to help and I hate seeing her sad. Thank you in advance.
ReplyDeleteI think my mum does know that is true I wouldn’t mind continuing the relationship
ReplyDeleteWow thanks so much
ReplyDelete“Where do I meet girls?”
ReplyDeleteLiterally anywhere. You’re welcome.
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ReplyDeleteHere at this site. You are in the right place. good luck...
It feels creepy to approach people randomly.. or maybe I’m just afraid to haha
That’s the tough part for me, too.
ReplyDeleteYou just have to do it. It's like learning any skill, it takes practice and ultimately it's a numbers game. The more you approach people the easier it gets. You get better at reading signals to see if initiating makes sense, you get better at starting conversations, you get better at reading feedback. You'll become more comfortable. You'll stumble and fall, you'll create embarrassing and awkward memories and you'll be rejected many times, but it will build your character, make you better and it will help you find the right person for you. If you see someone interesting, just go to talk to them.
ReplyDeleteHere's a story of mine. When i was in college, i met a girl through a friend of a friend. This girl was very nice, and i spent some time with her and her friends, we were getting along nicely. One day, i was outside the college hall, talking with friends, and i saw that girl approaching. I was on the top level, she was going for the bottom door, didnt see me. So to get her attention, i threw snowballs at her, one of em hit her in the face. She laughed, smile at me, and went on her way. So i go join her. It wasnt the same girl, the girl i just threw snowballs at didnt even know me. I was mortified and apologized, but we ended up dating because of that. So, nothing is too weird when its about meeting someone haha.
ReplyDeleteHow do you approach them, though? How do you do it correctly?
ReplyDeleteWhen you're chucking snowballs at their face an apology is a good start
ReplyDeleteI didn’t respond to that.
ReplyDeleteJust go up and talk to them, it's not that hard.
ReplyDeleteI think part of it is just getting out to do activities you’re genuinely interested and having organic connections through that. It doesn’t have to be walking down the street and trying to approach someone that way.
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