My (26M) GF (22F) of 3 years is moving to her home state and won’t do long distance relationship

She is moving 3 thousand miles away across the country - USA - and doesn’t want to do a long distance relationship. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with her. She has said she has thought of the same and having a family with me. We’ve both thought of the future together. She needs to move back home because she is homesick and mental state is better At home. She truly hates it here and can’t see herself ever living here in the future. I hate that i can’t give her what she’s looking for here. I hate that I’m not enough for her to want to stay I said let’s move somewhere we can both agree on and she said she has to be home. We are on good terms she still loves me and I still love her but she knows the long distance will kill both of us and end things badly. I want to be angry at her but i know she’s right. She says she wants me in her life so she wants to end it on good terms.

I know the only way I can be with her Is to move to her state. That’s the only way it will work because she hates the state we’re in right now and she’d never be Happy. I just can’t up and move to her state right now because of jobs and things but i would in the future move for her. She doesn’t believe i will because I’ve stated in the past how idk if i could live in her state for the same reason she hates the state im from. It’s so much different and i can’t see myself living there. She says she doesn’t want to make me raise a family in a State I dont want to be in. She’s essentially set her mind she wants to move on from me. But i would do anything for her.

The realization i can’t do anything no matter what I say and do is the worst feeling in the world. I feel helpless because I’m losing the love of my life but I think she’s right and things would end badly? It’s an amazingly weird feeling and I dont know how to process it. I love this girl and I’ve never felt this way. I want to end things on a good note because I want to keep the option open in the future of us being together. Am I crazy? I’ve had Gfs before I’ve never felt like this about someone before. It’s killing me I would do anything for her.

TL;DR: My GF of 3 years is breaking up with me because she’s moving back home to her home State and not coming back. She is the love of my life. Doesn’t want to do long distance relationship because she doesn’t want it to end bad and wants me in her life.

Submitted May 10, 2019 at 04:05AM

She is moving 3 thousand miles away across the country - USA - and doesn’t want to do a long distance relationship. I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with her. She has said she has thought of the same and having a family with me. We’ve both thought of the future together. She needs to move back home because she is homesick and mental state is better At home. She truly hates it here and can’t see herself ever living here in the future. I hate that i can’t give her what she’s looking for here. I hate that I’m not enough for her to want to stay I said let’s move somewhere we can both agree on and she said she has to be home. We are on good terms she still loves me and I still love her but she knows the long distance will kill both of us and end things badly. I want to be angry at her but i know she’s right. She says she wants me in her life so she wants to end it on good terms.I know the only way I can be with her Is to move to her state. That’s the only way it will work because she hates the state we’re in right now and she’d never be Happy. I just can’t up and move to her state right now because of jobs and things but i would in the future move for her. She doesn’t believe i will because I’ve stated in the past how idk if i could live in her state for the same reason she hates the state im from. It’s so much different and i can’t see myself living there. She says she doesn’t want to make me raise a family in a State I dont want to be in. She’s essentially set her mind she wants to move on from me. But i would do anything for her.The realization i can’t do anything no matter what I say and do is the worst feeling in the world. I feel helpless because I’m losing the love of my life but I think she’s right and things would end badly? It’s an amazingly weird feeling and I dont know how to process it. I love this girl and I’ve never felt this way. I want to end things on a good note because I want to keep the option open in the future of us being together. Am I crazy? I’ve had Gfs before I’ve never felt like this about someone before. It’s killing me I would do anything for her.TL;DR: My GF of 3 years is breaking up with me because she’s moving back home to her home State and not coming back. She is the love of my life. Doesn’t want to do long distance relationship because she doesn’t want it to end bad and wants me in her life.