Wife getting along with friends wives.

Hey guys! Just looking for some advice on how to approach this situation. My wife and I have been married two years, together 4. I have a best friend let’s call him A. We have been friends for over 15 years. A and his wife have been together for 6 or 7 years. Prior to meeting my wife I got along great with A’s wife. Always super nice and nice to me. The problem is A’s wife and my wife do not get along. There were some minor issues in the beginning. Some she said she said stuff. They just never hit it off I guess. But over the years it seems to have really boiled. We might hang out as couples once every couple of months and their conversation is very forced and they might not even say a word to each other. It seems like if one try’s to hold a convo the other has no interest. If we go to a social event and they are both there they will go out of their way to not speak to each other. I know my wife is over it and it causes problems between us if a group event is coming up. Me and A do hang out and do guy stuff without the girls and i have asked him what is up with the wives and if everything is ok. He says he notices it too but his wife never says anything about it. What advice do you guys have about the situation? My 30th birthday party is coming up and when I said I’d like to invite them I could tell it will completely ruin it for my wife. Should I say something to A again? Thanks guys.

Submitted May 09, 2019 at 05:05PM

Hey guys! Just looking for some advice on how to approach this situation. My wife and I have been married two years, together 4. I have a best friend let’s call him A. We have been friends for over 15 years. A and his wife have been together for 6 or 7 years. Prior to meeting my wife I got along great with A’s wife. Always super nice and nice to me. The problem is A’s wife and my wife do not get along. There were some minor issues in the beginning. Some she said she said stuff. They just never hit it off I guess. But over the years it seems to have really boiled. We might hang out as couples once every couple of months and their conversation is very forced and they might not even say a word to each other. It seems like if one try’s to hold a convo the other has no interest. If we go to a social event and they are both there they will go out of their way to not speak to each other. I know my wife is over it and it causes problems between us if a group event is coming up. Me and A do hang out and do guy stuff without the girls and i have asked him what is up with the wives and if everything is ok. He says he notices it too but his wife never says anything about it. What advice do you guys have about the situation? My 30th birthday party is coming up and when I said I’d like to invite them I could tell it will completely ruin it for my wife. Should I say something to A again? Thanks guys.