Stuck and lost in dating
Hello everyone,
I am freshly 20 years old and want to improve my dating life.
I had 3 gfs, with whom those relationships were even barely relationships. I had other opportunities, but declined them, but that was longer time ago. Now I feel like I lost all my skills with dates. Even tho I have somehow been on 2 dates this week (after almost a year maybe), I think I am missing something.
On second date girl complimented me, that she thought I was cute when she saw me with my friend and asked him for my number so we went out, so from her side obviously there was attraction. But I think I messed it up. I do not want to blame it on "bad chemistry", because there was definitely chemistry from the beginning, I just think there is problem somewhere in me. I honestly do not want to approach 1000 girls, get 100 dates, because I want to have time also for other things. There are people going on dates, having LTR without having to work on dating. I know that it is more about handling opportunities better, like increasing succes rate of dates and taking them further, because at this point I feel like even if I had 1000 dates, I would mess them all up with my current "style" of dating. Was ever anyone in this situation and found out where problem was?
I am 181 cm tall, working out regularly. Studying physics at college. Hygiene, grooming and clean clothes in check.
Thank you for reading this and for responses
Submitted May 05, 2019 at 07:35PM
Hello everyone,I am freshly 20 years old and want to improve my dating life.I had 3 gfs, with whom those relationships were even barely relationships. I had other opportunities, but declined them, but that was longer time ago. Now I feel like I lost all my skills with dates. Even tho I have somehow been on 2 dates this week (after almost a year maybe), I think I am missing something.On second date girl complimented me, that she thought I was cute when she saw me with my friend and asked him for my number so we went out, so from her side obviously there was attraction. But I think I messed it up. I do not want to blame it on "bad chemistry", because there was definitely chemistry from the beginning, I just think there is problem somewhere in me. I honestly do not want to approach 1000 girls, get 100 dates, because I want to have time also for other things. There are people going on dates, having LTR without having to work on dating. I know that it is more about handling opportunities better, like increasing succes rate of dates and taking them further, because at this point I feel like even if I had 1000 dates, I would mess them all up with my current "style" of dating. Was ever anyone in this situation and found out where problem was?I am 181 cm tall, working out regularly. Studying physics at college. Hygiene, grooming and clean clothes in check.Thank you for reading this and for responses
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