22M, The uncertainty is overwhelming me.

First, here's my background: I've always been the loner type in school, was always excluded in everything and because of that and other reasons I've never gotten involved in anything romantic with another girl.

On the first day of this class is signed up to at my university there was this cute girl seated right in front of me. Suddenly she turns to me and makes a comment about a story the professor was telling us. I was slightly shocked because nothing like that sort of interaction ever happened to me before but I tried to maintain composure and smiled and agreed with her. At the end of the class we waved at each other as she was leaving the room.

Obviously my insecurities and low self esteem led me to believe she was just being friendly. On the next class, I entered the room and took my seat. When she came in she chose a seat beside mine. This time she talked a bit more and even told me an anecdote about her job. I was polite and bit more talkative than last time but I still suck at small talk.

I have no idea what is happening, I can't tell if she is into me or not. I'm a bit clueless on this matter but since this is the first time something like this happens in all 4 years of college I tend to believe she is. However, I am definitely not an attractive guy (I'd say I'm average or maybe below) and she is very cute and seems to be out of my league, and that forces me to believe she's just a friendly person.

I'm stuck on this back and forth and it's making me feel lost. I'm trying to come up with stuff to be more interactive next class but I'm not really good at it since I have literally 0 experience on this. Any thoughts or advice?

Submitted May 05, 2019 at 11:12PM

First, here's my background: I've always been the loner type in school, was always excluded in everything and because of that and other reasons I've never gotten involved in anything romantic with another girl.On the first day of this class is signed up to at my university there was this cute girl seated right in front of me. Suddenly she turns to me and makes a comment about a story the professor was telling us. I was slightly shocked because nothing like that sort of interaction ever happened to me before but I tried to maintain composure and smiled and agreed with her. At the end of the class we waved at each other as she was leaving the room.Obviously my insecurities and low self esteem led me to believe she was just being friendly. On the next class, I entered the room and took my seat. When she came in she chose a seat beside mine. This time she talked a bit more and even told me an anecdote about her job. I was polite and bit more talkative than last time but I still suck at small talk.I have no idea what is happening, I can't tell if she is into me or not. I'm a bit clueless on this matter but since this is the first time something like this happens in all 4 years of college I tend to believe she is. However, I am definitely not an attractive guy (I'd say I'm average or maybe below) and she is very cute and seems to be out of my league, and that forces me to believe she's just a friendly person.I'm stuck on this back and forth and it's making me feel lost. I'm trying to come up with stuff to be more interactive next class but I'm not really good at it since I have literally 0 experience on this. Any thoughts or advice?