Things are getting done...just not me

Ok so married awhile like a little over 10 years. Have kids, house, the whole enchilada. Anyway, I take care of the house and kids while going to school the hubby works and provides. For the most part he handles all the outside of the house stuff. We are comfortable not rich but dont worry too much. Bow the problem, I rarely get laid. Like we finally did it like 2 weeks ago after at least a month. And while I was able to assist to get myself off it kind of sucked. It like a routine of I touch this he runs that and I hate it. Sometimes he rushes through that. Not much foreplay and really no kissing. He works a lot granted but has plenty of time for his hobby or makes the time. Yet sex falls to the wayside. We are still pretty young early 30s. I still get attention even with him with which makes him shitty. We ve been having problems with our sex life for about 6 years. Weight gain on my side was the issue on my side at first. Now I'm back to prebaby size and weight and looking pretty good. Just yesterday a couple of guys younger (just a few years) tried to talk to me before they noticed him. What do you do? I've talked to him until my head explodes and he says he'll try. Counseling isnt an option unfortunately. But I'm still pretty young and NEED IT lol

Submitted May 25, 2019 at 03:31PM

Ok so married awhile like a little over 10 years. Have kids, house, the whole enchilada. Anyway, I take care of the house and kids while going to school the hubby works and provides. For the most part he handles all the outside of the house stuff. We are comfortable not rich but dont worry too much. Bow the problem, I rarely get laid. Like we finally did it like 2 weeks ago after at least a month. And while I was able to assist to get myself off it kind of sucked. It like a routine of I touch this he runs that and I hate it. Sometimes he rushes through that. Not much foreplay and really no kissing. He works a lot granted but has plenty of time for his hobby or makes the time. Yet sex falls to the wayside. We are still pretty young early 30s. I still get attention even with him with which makes him shitty. We ve been having problems with our sex life for about 6 years. Weight gain on my side was the issue on my side at first. Now I'm back to prebaby size and weight and looking pretty good. Just yesterday a couple of guys younger (just a few years) tried to talk to me before they noticed him. What do you do? I've talked to him until my head explodes and he says he'll try. Counseling isnt an option unfortunately. But I'm still pretty young and NEED IT lol