New relationship

I have been seeing a man for the past 3 months who is absolutely perfect in every way. He is so sweet and caring, and the sex is amazing. The only problem is that he is recently divorced (the divorced was finalized this Monday). He pretty much told me that he enjoys what we have but can't commit to a relationship right now, being that he is just out of a 17 year long relationship. I am rapidly developing feelings for him, and he acts like we are boyfriend and girlfriend all the time. He even tried to introduce me to his mom on Facetime and has introduced me to his kids already. He has made references to going on vacation together and has even accidentally called himself my boyfriend (He said: "I'd love to meet your sister. Do you introduce your sister to boyfriends?"). He even said once, "Who knows? We could end up together. But the odds are against us. If we ever ended things, I hope we can at least be friends. "

Should I end it to protect myself? Or should I stick it out and hope things change? I feel sick to my stomach when I think about the inevitable end to this. I also think I can use the emotional support since my dad just died and I don't have many other friends.

Any advice for what I should do?

Submitted April 18, 2019 at 07:04PM

I have been seeing a man for the past 3 months who is absolutely perfect in every way. He is so sweet and caring, and the sex is amazing. The only problem is that he is recently divorced (the divorced was finalized this Monday). He pretty much told me that he enjoys what we have but can't commit to a relationship right now, being that he is just out of a 17 year long relationship. I am rapidly developing feelings for him, and he acts like we are boyfriend and girlfriend all the time. He even tried to introduce me to his mom on Facetime and has introduced me to his kids already. He has made references to going on vacation together and has even accidentally called himself my boyfriend (He said: "I'd love to meet your sister. Do you introduce your sister to boyfriends?"). He even said once, "Who knows? We could end up together. But the odds are against us. If we ever ended things, I hope we can at least be friends. "Should I end it to protect myself? Or should I stick it out and hope things change? I feel sick to my stomach when I think about the inevitable end to this. I also think I can use the emotional support since my dad just died and I don't have many other friends.Any advice for what I should do?