I (26F) am afraid I wont love my boyfriend (29M) as hard as I loved my ex (26M)

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now, things are going really good and getting more serious as time passes. Prior to this relationship I was in a 6 year relationship, my first boyfriend, i always though that he was the person I was going to spend my life with. I loved him harrrddddd. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago now. And like I said things are going really well with my boyfriend now, but I just sometimes feel sad, or impatient because I want to love the way I did my ex. This man is deserving of all of that. It’s not that I miss my ex, at all, I just miss our like...young, innocent love. I do think I’m definitely in love with my boyfriend but I’m afraid I’ll never feel anything like that again/impatient and want to reach that extreme level of comfort after being together for years.

TL;DR: I’m basically afraid I will never love my boyfriend as hard as I lovED my ex.



Submitted April 19, 2019 at 05:05AM

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now, things are going really good and getting more serious as time passes. Prior to this relationship I was in a 6 year relationship, my first boyfriend, i always though that he was the person I was going to spend my life with. I loved him harrrddddd. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago now. And like I said things are going really well with my boyfriend now, but I just sometimes feel sad, or impatient because I want to love the way I did my ex. This man is deserving of all of that. It’s not that I miss my ex, at all, I just miss our like...young, innocent love. I do think I’m definitely in love with my boyfriend but I’m afraid I’ll never feel anything like that again/impatient and want to reach that extreme level of comfort after being together for years.TL;DR: I’m basically afraid I will never love my boyfriend as hard as I lovED my ex.

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