How to deal with breakup before studying abroad? (16m)
TL;DR: I going to study abroad and have a girlfriend how to cope with the breakup.
I have been with this girl for like 1/2 a year and I really love her. while we were together I got accepted to UWCSEA, which means I have a full scholarship to study in a college in Singapore at 16. I only have 3.5 months before I go, and a long distance relationship isn’t an option. My girlfriend knew about it from the start of the applications and she was very supportive the whole time. Two weeks ago she said that we should breakup now because she loves me a lot and she wants to cope with the breakup while I am still here so we can stay friends when I am there. I disagree. I want to use the time I have in Israel to be with her and continue the relationship. Anyway we missed each other after the breakup to much and met like 3 times and continued kissing etc. but she said we need to stop being together even if it’s hard. Any advice? How to deal with this? How to not be jealous if she sees someone else?
Submitted April 19, 2019 at 07:10AM
TL;DR: I going to study abroad and have a girlfriend how to cope with the breakup.I have been with this girl for like 1/2 a year and I really love her. while we were together I got accepted to UWCSEA, which means I have a full scholarship to study in a college in Singapore at 16. I only have 3.5 months before I go, and a long distance relationship isn’t an option. My girlfriend knew about it from the start of the applications and she was very supportive the whole time. Two weeks ago she said that we should breakup now because she loves me a lot and she wants to cope with the breakup while I am still here so we can stay friends when I am there. I disagree. I want to use the time I have in Israel to be with her and continue the relationship. Anyway we missed each other after the breakup to much and met like 3 times and continued kissing etc. but she said we need to stop being together even if it’s hard. Any advice? How to deal with this? How to not be jealous if she sees someone else?
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