Girlfriend [21F] Misses me but Doesn't Call Me [23M]

So my girlfriend and i have been dating for 4 months now. 2 of the months have been long distance and will be for a year. She seems interested. We met each other's parents, she talks about the future and looking to move where I'm at.

She used to snapchat me everyday. She doesn't at all anymore (past 2 weeks), and i haven't sent any to her. She used to call every now and then and now she doesn't at all. I'm always the one calling, but I've stopped drastically.

Anyways, I addressed the topic of our lack of communication 3 times. On the second time she says she's just been working late nights and things will change afterwards. Well, they didn't She went 4 days without contact, and I called her a 3rd time to tell her the only way this will work is if we communicate more. She agreed and said "she's just bad at long distance stuff". She mentioned how she doesn't even call her parents weeks on end and said I'm the most she's tried with. She said she'll call me 'tomorrow', which is today and i'm still waiting on her call. (we'll see if she does)

During the same call, and before I mentioned the lack of communication, she mentioned about how much she missed me the other day. That's when I said "well you should have called", and she just said "yea". She also mentioned that I was "2 days away from getting an interesting text" I asked her the next day what it was and she said "i miss you inside me".

So what do you think is going on? Is she interested in someone else?

TL;DR: Girlfriend always says she misses me, but doesn't snapchat me anymore and doesn't call.



Submitted May 28, 2019 at 12:39AM

So my girlfriend and i have been dating for 4 months now. 2 of the months have been long distance and will be for a year. She seems interested. We met each other's parents, she talks about the future and looking to move where I'm at.She used to snapchat me everyday. She doesn't at all anymore (past 2 weeks), and i haven't sent any to her. She used to call every now and then and now she doesn't at all. I'm always the one calling, but I've stopped drastically.Anyways, I addressed the topic of our lack of communication 3 times. On the second time she says she's just been working late nights and things will change afterwards. Well, they didn't She went 4 days without contact, and I called her a 3rd time to tell her the only way this will work is if we communicate more. She agreed and said "she's just bad at long distance stuff". She mentioned how she doesn't even call her parents weeks on end and said I'm the most she's tried with. She said she'll call me 'tomorrow', which is today and i'm still waiting on her call. (we'll see if she does)During the same call, and before I mentioned the lack of communication, she mentioned about how much she missed me the other day. That's when I said "well you should have called", and she just said "yea". She also mentioned that I was "2 days away from getting an interesting text" I asked her the next day what it was and she said "i miss you inside me".So what do you think is going on? Is she interested in someone else?TL;DR: Girlfriend always says she misses me, but doesn't snapchat me anymore and doesn't call.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The difference between being right and being understood

My (27f) gf (27f) is getting tired of me not sharing intimate/ personal info about me

My (23M) girlfriend (25F) relationship is confusing to me. I might be the problem, or maybe we are just incompatible.