"This never happened to me so CLEARLY you're lying!" [Story]

I had a girlfriend in highschool. My mom would pick us up and take us home. Her mom was in denial that her daughter and I were having sex. No this isn't an /r/ihavesex post, this is story about how when you're a teen, you should be careful with what happens.

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My parents when I was a teenager were having a lot of trouble staying together. My dad was cheating on my mom with this bimbo of a woman who is now my step mom. This women doesn't , clean, work, can barely keep herself looking nice, smokes, hard time understanding anything and doesn't like that my mom and dad made up and are trying to stay friends. This was in the last 12 years.

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When I was about 16, my dad wouldn't talk to me for almost a years to 2 years and it was impossible to get ahold of him. So my mom as well decided to sleep alot and do what she thought was right which was make me happy. So my dad left us. No, I didn't act out, join a gang or anything like that, instead I got a girlfriend. No, I didn't beat her, I didn't do anything fucked up. At most we had a lot of sex. And I regret it now because that's basically all my relationship was with her. I never got to know her. I wish I did.

I was that kid in my highschool, I was the Ferris Bueller, or at least I tried. All the teachers knew me, all the teachers mostly liked me. I never had any real issues, I tried to be a good boy. The teachers knew who I was dating, what was going on, and sometimes my mom would come and get us after school, we'd go to my room and my mom went to hers, till my girlfriend's mom would come and pick her up. That being said, we never REALLY got to know each other and it makes me sad.

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If I can give any advice to any teens on this sub its this, don't over think love, don't think it's going to last. Any teens dating, it's likely not going to last so don't think "OMG GUYS XDDD HE'S THE ONE!" You will date, a lot, try your best not to put too much feeling into it because 1 of you will want to break up or cheat, and when it happens, you will hurt, a lot.

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After 3 years of dating, I asked her to marry me. Come to find out, us being teenagers, it wasn't long enough for her and she decides to cheat on me with who at the time was one of my closet friends. My best friend. I can't even get mad at him. I tried, I asked my friends if they had an idea why and one said "it's because she cheated on you, he didn't go to her, she went to him for comfort instead of you." And this happened.

To all teenagers, do yourself a favor, BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER! Not enough people do this and it ruins relationships.

Submitted May 03, 2019 at 06:49PM

I had a girlfriend in highschool. My mom would pick us up and take us home. Her mom was in denial that her daughter and I were having sex. No this isn't an /r/ihavesex post, this is story about how when you're a teen, you should be careful with what happens.​My parents when I was a teenager were having a lot of trouble staying together. My dad was cheating on my mom with this bimbo of a woman who is now my step mom. This women doesn't , clean, work, can barely keep herself looking nice, smokes, hard time understanding anything and doesn't like that my mom and dad made up and are trying to stay friends. This was in the last 12 years.​When I was about 16, my dad wouldn't talk to me for almost a years to 2 years and it was impossible to get ahold of him. So my mom as well decided to sleep alot and do what she thought was right which was make me happy. So my dad left us. No, I didn't act out, join a gang or anything like that, instead I got a girlfriend. No, I didn't beat her, I didn't do anything fucked up. At most we had a lot of sex. And I regret it now because that's basically all my relationship was with her. I never got to know her. I wish I did.I was that kid in my highschool, I was the Ferris Bueller, or at least I tried. All the teachers knew me, all the teachers mostly liked me. I never had any real issues, I tried to be a good boy. The teachers knew who I was dating, what was going on, and sometimes my mom would come and get us after school, we'd go to my room and my mom went to hers, till my girlfriend's mom would come and pick her up. That being said, we never REALLY got to know each other and it makes me sad.​If I can give any advice to any teens on this sub its this, don't over think love, don't think it's going to last. Any teens dating, it's likely not going to last so don't think "OMG GUYS XDDD HE'S THE ONE!" You will date, a lot, try your best not to put too much feeling into it because 1 of you will want to break up or cheat, and when it happens, you will hurt, a lot.​After 3 years of dating, I asked her to marry me. Come to find out, us being teenagers, it wasn't long enough for her and she decides to cheat on me with who at the time was one of my closet friends. My best friend. I can't even get mad at him. I tried, I asked my friends if they had an idea why and one said "it's because she cheated on you, he didn't go to her, she went to him for comfort instead of you." And this happened.To all teenagers, do yourself a favor, BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER! Not enough people do this and it ruins relationships.