For all the singles out there! Wake up

Hey everyone, M(20) if i manage to successfully convey my message in this post and make atleast one person feel better, then I'd consider this to be a success. I've been wanting to share this since morning but i now finally have the strength to tell everyone this.

I have been single all my life. Had a few chances here and there but i never took them until recently and still failed miserably lol. I consider myself to be a late bloomer but that's because of personal reasons.

I'm sure there are many people in the community here who haven't maybe given dating a shot because they're waiting for the right person to enter in their lives or things just didn't work out for them. People who broke up and are single now and find it difficult to bond with someone else. People who suffer from social anxiety, trust issues and what not.

All of this leading to depression, wondering whether they'd be single all their lives, the fear of being single haunting you, burdening you with horrifying dreams of no family, no loving girlfriend or wife or boyfriend or husband and you being alone for the entirety. But have you ever thought "So what?".

You have your standards. You have your preferences. If you have certain choices in "your" life, you stick to it because you lead your life, not anyone else. Care less is what I'm saying over the fact that you're single and all the more, "WORK MORE" on yourself. Enjoy your company, do what you like, shower yourself with all the love you've been wanting to share with someone else. HAVE FUN!

Ladies and gentlemen, as cliché as it might sound. Start prioritizing yourself, improve yourself, tell yourself you're sexy because YOU ARE and you'll find things to fall in place because hey, dating is not everything, especially rushing into a dating scenario or being depressed about it won't you help at all. You can make yourself happy by controlling the unnecessary factors that control you. I'm not against dating, you can keep your options open, meet new people etc. but don't sulk over the fact that you have no one, because you do. You have you :)

I hope I've helped. Sorry for any formatting issues. I'm on my phone.



Submitted May 03, 2019 at 07:18PM

Hey everyone, M(20) if i manage to successfully convey my message in this post and make atleast one person feel better, then I'd consider this to be a success. I've been wanting to share this since morning but i now finally have the strength to tell everyone this.I have been single all my life. Had a few chances here and there but i never took them until recently and still failed miserably lol. I consider myself to be a late bloomer but that's because of personal reasons.I'm sure there are many people in the community here who haven't maybe given dating a shot because they're waiting for the right person to enter in their lives or things just didn't work out for them. People who broke up and are single now and find it difficult to bond with someone else. People who suffer from social anxiety, trust issues and what not.All of this leading to depression, wondering whether they'd be single all their lives, the fear of being single haunting you, burdening you with horrifying dreams of no family, no loving girlfriend or wife or boyfriend or husband and you being alone for the entirety. But have you ever thought "So what?".You have your standards. You have your preferences. If you have certain choices in "your" life, you stick to it because you lead your life, not anyone else. Care less is what I'm saying over the fact that you're single and all the more, "WORK MORE" on yourself. Enjoy your company, do what you like, shower yourself with all the love you've been wanting to share with someone else. HAVE FUN!Ladies and gentlemen, as cliché as it might sound. Start prioritizing yourself, improve yourself, tell yourself you're sexy because YOU ARE and you'll find things to fall in place because hey, dating is not everything, especially rushing into a dating scenario or being depressed about it won't you help at all. You can make yourself happy by controlling the unnecessary factors that control you. I'm not against dating, you can keep your options open, meet new people etc. but don't sulk over the fact that you have no one, because you do. You have you :)I hope I've helped. Sorry for any formatting issues. I'm on my phone.
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