My girlfriend cheated, I'm sad but not mad.

Hi people of reddit, yesterday I learned that my girlfriend cheated on me with her friend. Its been a couple of months and I felt she was distant with me, awkward and couldnt look intoo my eyes as she use too. I talked to her about it, she sais that everything was okay. That she still loved me. After a couple od months of paranoïa and feeling depressed I decides too take a different approach and talk to her quietly without any judgement. I ask her if the relationship between her and her friend was platonic... She said no, I felt as if my hearth was about too jump out of my chest but I controlled it and said to her with all the love that I had left in me that if she loved her then to stay with her. When she told me that she loved her wich was one of the most painful emotion I have ever felt. She wantes me to stay with her but the paranoia would just be getting worst and worst and I would feel miserable. We cried in each others arms until 2 am. I feel miserable and lost but glad that she may have found the right person for her. Oh well, we had so much fun and she made me grow up a bit. Farewell Cassandra I hope you live a life full of love because you deserve it. Thank you for your time , Love is all you need to unserstand people even when they hurt you, turn the other cheek thats what true love his.



Submitted April 06, 2019 at 04:56PM

Hi people of reddit, yesterday I learned that my girlfriend cheated on me with her friend. Its been a couple of months and I felt she was distant with me, awkward and couldnt look intoo my eyes as she use too. I talked to her about it, she sais that everything was okay. That she still loved me. After a couple od months of paranoïa and feeling depressed I decides too take a different approach and talk to her quietly without any judgement. I ask her if the relationship between her and her friend was platonic... She said no, I felt as if my hearth was about too jump out of my chest but I controlled it and said to her with all the love that I had left in me that if she loved her then to stay with her. When she told me that she loved her wich was one of the most painful emotion I have ever felt. She wantes me to stay with her but the paranoia would just be getting worst and worst and I would feel miserable. We cried in each others arms until 2 am. I feel miserable and lost but glad that she may have found the right person for her. Oh well, we had so much fun and she made me grow up a bit. Farewell Cassandra I hope you live a life full of love because you deserve it. Thank you for your time , Love is all you need to unserstand people even when they hurt you, turn the other cheek thats what true love his.

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