Does love exist? My venting, my plans

According to buddist philosophy love is a wicked desire of our own selfish fullfillment therefore romantic love rarely exists. I agree with this mostly. I still hope some of my exs are doing great even though I will never see them again so there can't be a selfish desire where I gain nothing, then there are a couple of my exs not so much. I did love a couple of them dearly we were simply incompatible. I just went through this. It made me want to drink hard that he wasn't showing any effort to spend time with me nor care to explain why he had been MIA. He also made it sound like I was 4 yrs old. There were other problems that ranged from sex addiction to self esteem. I'm super over that crap. Sorry just venting. So I had to get away. I feel much better now just saying. I am not giving up. I have a date with a guy named Danny. Danny boy like my audition song. Danny boy was also my grandmothers favorite song. It has very little relevance only coincidentally. I've never dated a danny or an inch shorter than me but I'mwilling to try. Also I started talking to my old co worker again btw I do like him but we've never messed around. He is chris pratt type beautiful gorgeous BUT has a reallllllly bad temper. He came over the night before last and we made YouTube videos he is in the running too he seems alot calmer but still very scary, and finally Jacob although he is far too Christian for my liking as well as his whole family... jacob would marry me tomorrow and he is abercrombie type not that looks natter so much but extremely gorgeous witty, funny, fun to be with, I know he would love me forever. I would have to join the church. I believe in God just not alot of what they preach in Christian churches and for me it is a moral dilemma. I am going jet skiing with Jacob here soon you never know. Super stoked. Hopeful. I want to know what love really is.



Submitted April 06, 2019 at 05:04PM

According to buddist philosophy love is a wicked desire of our own selfish fullfillment therefore romantic love rarely exists. I agree with this mostly. I still hope some of my exs are doing great even though I will never see them again so there can't be a selfish desire where I gain nothing, then there are a couple of my exs not so much. I did love a couple of them dearly we were simply incompatible. I just went through this. It made me want to drink hard that he wasn't showing any effort to spend time with me nor care to explain why he had been MIA. He also made it sound like I was 4 yrs old. There were other problems that ranged from sex addiction to self esteem. I'm super over that crap. Sorry just venting. So I had to get away. I feel much better now just saying. I am not giving up. I have a date with a guy named Danny. Danny boy like my audition song. Danny boy was also my grandmothers favorite song. It has very little relevance only coincidentally. I've never dated a danny or an inch shorter than me but I'mwilling to try. Also I started talking to my old co worker again btw I do like him but we've never messed around. He is chris pratt type beautiful gorgeous BUT has a reallllllly bad temper. He came over the night before last and we made YouTube videos he is in the running too he seems alot calmer but still very scary, and finally Jacob although he is far too Christian for my liking as well as his whole family... jacob would marry me tomorrow and he is abercrombie type not that looks natter so much but extremely gorgeous witty, funny, fun to be with, I know he would love me forever. I would have to join the church. I believe in God just not alot of what they preach in Christian churches and for me it is a moral dilemma. I am going jet skiing with Jacob here soon you never know. Super stoked. Hopeful. I want to know what love really is.
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