Should I try and make another attempt or move on

So I (20f) have been talking to Steve (22m) since about March. I met him first day we arrived at the beach on spring break when my friends boyfriend and Steve were already staying and leaving the next morning. We hung out all night and he flirted with me a decent bit but never really made a move. I followed him on Instagram and then he asked for my number. We hung out as soon as I got back from the beach. We proceeded to hang out first at his house then I I went to his house and stayed the night. Then he came to a party at my house with all of my friends. Then a group of us went to an all day concert together a week or so ago.

We used to text a decent amount but neither of us really use our phones. Recently he had been blowing me off a lot last minute. We are both In college and at first he said finals were a lot and then it was all his friends are graduating so he has a ton going in and then after all this he came to my house for a game night 2 nights ago.

I asked him to go on a hike with me or grab some food 3 days prior to today and he said yeah definitely. He then told me he went the the movies with his brother and sister in law and Then said “we should hang out another night.” Once again blowing me off last minute

I don’t know if he Dosent want to hangout or is really just super busy. I don’t know how I should respond to his last message so any advice or insight would be appreciated



Submitted May 11, 2019 at 05:57AM

So I (20f) have been talking to Steve (22m) since about March. I met him first day we arrived at the beach on spring break when my friends boyfriend and Steve were already staying and leaving the next morning. We hung out all night and he flirted with me a decent bit but never really made a move. I followed him on Instagram and then he asked for my number. We hung out as soon as I got back from the beach. We proceeded to hang out first at his house then I I went to his house and stayed the night. Then he came to a party at my house with all of my friends. Then a group of us went to an all day concert together a week or so ago.We used to text a decent amount but neither of us really use our phones. Recently he had been blowing me off a lot last minute. We are both In college and at first he said finals were a lot and then it was all his friends are graduating so he has a ton going in and then after all this he came to my house for a game night 2 nights ago.I asked him to go on a hike with me or grab some food 3 days prior to today and he said yeah definitely. He then told me he went the the movies with his brother and sister in law and Then said “we should hang out another night.” Once again blowing me off last minuteI don’t know if he Dosent want to hangout or is really just super busy. I don’t know how I should respond to his last message so any advice or insight would be appreciated
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