I(18M) asked my crush(19F) out, she rejected me but is being rude about it. Am I overreacting?

I asked this girl out on a date today to this event she told me about earlier in the day. I thought it was the perfect place and time for me to make a move since it was at an event that you'd generally bring a date to. She said no and wanted to be friends. About an hour later she texts ME about how she has no one to go to this event with. I try to change the subject but she then continues to complain about how she has no one to go with. I ask her "would you maybe want to go as friends to (event)?" Texts back "no I'm going with (insert male name) thanks though." I was surprisingly not all that beat up over it.

Here's what really pissed me off.

She then goes on to tell me how much I would've hated to go to this event and how she won't "succumb" me to such a boring time at this event because it was at a college I transferred away from. She claimed that I was done with my time at that college and had no reason to go back and that I would get bored. Don't know if I'm overreacting but I think its pretty rude to automatically assume that kind of thing. I could give a shit about where this event was held, I wanted to go to show her that I respect her feelings and have a good time as friends. It just sounds to me that she just made up a stupid excuse. I understand that what I said probably made things weird, but she could've been honest, no?

Her loss though, she doesn't know this but I am a pretty good dancer. During high school I was always at the center of the dance floor at prom and everyone always wanted to dance with me. She really doesn't know what she's missing.

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TL;DR: asked out crush to an event but said no and went with another guy and tried to convince me that I would've hated to go to said event.

Submitted May 11, 2019 at 06:00AM

I asked this girl out on a date today to this event she told me about earlier in the day. I thought it was the perfect place and time for me to make a move since it was at an event that you'd generally bring a date to. She said no and wanted to be friends. About an hour later she texts ME about how she has no one to go to this event with. I try to change the subject but she then continues to complain about how she has no one to go with. I ask her "would you maybe want to go as friends to (event)?" Texts back "no I'm going with (insert male name) thanks though." I was surprisingly not all that beat up over it.Here's what really pissed me off.She then goes on to tell me how much I would've hated to go to this event and how she won't "succumb" me to such a boring time at this event because it was at a college I transferred away from. She claimed that I was done with my time at that college and had no reason to go back and that I would get bored. Don't know if I'm overreacting but I think its pretty rude to automatically assume that kind of thing. I could give a shit about where this event was held, I wanted to go to show her that I respect her feelings and have a good time as friends. It just sounds to me that she just made up a stupid excuse. I understand that what I said probably made things weird, but she could've been honest, no?Her loss though, she doesn't know this but I am a pretty good dancer. During high school I was always at the center of the dance floor at prom and everyone always wanted to dance with me. She really doesn't know what she's missing.​TL;DR: asked out crush to an event but said no and went with another guy and tried to convince me that I would've hated to go to said event.