Should I Slide Into My Friend’s DMs

Ok so full context:

Last weekend I went out with some friends. (They’re more of my roommate’s friends from law school but I’ve gone out with them a several times. So while I’m not super close with them, I do know them enough to follow them on social media and they follow me back etc.) One of my roommate’s friends brought along a friend from undergrad while we spent the day kind of hopping from brewery to brewery in a group of about 8.

This was the first time I had met this girl but we seemed to hit it off really well. I thought she was really funny and cute and she seemed to show some interest in me as well (laughing a lot at what I was saying, making a lot of eye contact, teasing me about losing during a drinking game). The night ended kind of abruptly (the larger group just kind of split off and everyone did their own thing) so I never got the chance to ask for her number.

Is it creepy for me to message her friend on social media and mention that I wanted to give her my number? (I couldn’t find her social media directly to just give her a follow) I hate going about it that way because it feels kind of lame and creepy but I don’t think there’s a high chance I would see her again unless I try to reach out through our mutual friend.

I would really like to see this girl again if possible but I also don’t want to approach this the wrong way and come off as weird or creepy.

Plz help. I’m a pretty likable guy but also a nerd who doesn’t spend a lot of time flirting with women lol

Submitted May 30, 2019 at 04:15AM

Ok so full context:Last weekend I went out with some friends. (They’re more of my roommate’s friends from law school but I’ve gone out with them a several times. So while I’m not super close with them, I do know them enough to follow them on social media and they follow me back etc.) One of my roommate’s friends brought along a friend from undergrad while we spent the day kind of hopping from brewery to brewery in a group of about 8.This was the first time I had met this girl but we seemed to hit it off really well. I thought she was really funny and cute and she seemed to show some interest in me as well (laughing a lot at what I was saying, making a lot of eye contact, teasing me about losing during a drinking game). The night ended kind of abruptly (the larger group just kind of split off and everyone did their own thing) so I never got the chance to ask for her number.Is it creepy for me to message her friend on social media and mention that I wanted to give her my number? (I couldn’t find her social media directly to just give her a follow) I hate going about it that way because it feels kind of lame and creepy but I don’t think there’s a high chance I would see her again unless I try to reach out through our mutual friend.I would really like to see this girl again if possible but I also don’t want to approach this the wrong way and come off as weird or creepy.Plz help. I’m a pretty likable guy but also a nerd who doesn’t spend a lot of time flirting with women lol