Not getting a response sucks. I don’t know why it’s so common to ignore calls or messages nowadays.

I’m 26 (female) and he’s 30. We’ve been talking for a few weeks, but we’ve known each other for almost a year. I texted him and asked how his vacation is going. I saw that he read the message. No answer.

I understand that he may he busy, I really do. But it’s really rude to ignore. It’s so simple and effortless to take out a couple seconds of your day to tell someone that you’re going to be busy for the next three days or whatever. I don’t know if I’ll hear from him again. I won’t reach out again until a few more days. I’m not sure what to say/ask at that point. I’m just sad. Why do people ignore and not respond? I could never ever ever leave someone hanging like that.

Do you guys have suggestions as to what I should say when I text him in the next few days?

Submitted May 29, 2019 at 06:37AM

I’m 26 (female) and he’s 30. We’ve been talking for a few weeks, but we’ve known each other for almost a year. I texted him and asked how his vacation is going. I saw that he read the message. No answer.I understand that he may he busy, I really do. But it’s really rude to ignore. It’s so simple and effortless to take out a couple seconds of your day to tell someone that you’re going to be busy for the next three days or whatever. I don’t know if I’ll hear from him again. I won’t reach out again until a few more days. I’m not sure what to say/ask at that point. I’m just sad. Why do people ignore and not respond? I could never ever ever leave someone hanging like that.Do you guys have suggestions as to what I should say when I text him in the next few days?