I don't think we're sexually compatible

My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex when I do and it's kind of frustrating because my sex drive is much higher than her's. We've been dating for about 5 months and I feel like 9 times out of 10, I'm the one trying to make it happen. What's worse is that a lot of the time, I'll satisfy her and then she'll go to sleep right after; and this happens on days where neither of us had class and she spent most of it playing video games.

On the rare occasion that she is in the mood, it's rarely passionate. She doesn't really want to kiss or explore with foreplay. We've been doing the same things for a while now and it's not always interesting. I don't want to just introduce new things without asking her so I tell her what I want or I'll ask her what she wants and I never get a straight answer (e.g. "I don't know"). She has told me that she'll never go down on me which kind of sucks (no pun intended), and I'm at a loss right now.

Submitted May 29, 2019 at 02:47AM

My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex when I do and it's kind of frustrating because my sex drive is much higher than her's. We've been dating for about 5 months and I feel like 9 times out of 10, I'm the one trying to make it happen. What's worse is that a lot of the time, I'll satisfy her and then she'll go to sleep right after; and this happens on days where neither of us had class and she spent most of it playing video games.On the rare occasion that she is in the mood, it's rarely passionate. She doesn't really want to kiss or explore with foreplay. We've been doing the same things for a while now and it's not always interesting. I don't want to just introduce new things without asking her so I tell her what I want or I'll ask her what she wants and I never get a straight answer (e.g. "I don't know"). She has told me that she'll never go down on me which kind of sucks (no pun intended), and I'm at a loss right now.