Insecure with wife

So basically sometimes but especially lately I’ve been feeling insecure or jealous about my wife with other guys. I’ve been feeling really confident but recently we went to my wife’s friends wedding. She’s friends with both the bride and groom and she kept speaking highly of them on the way. I didn’t think much of it, at the time. But after we got there during the speeches my wife pointed out that the groom was looking at her a little bit, and myself as well. I asked why he would be looking at me and she mentioned that he’s probably curious to see who she’s with now. Again I didn’t think too too much of it, as she met him when he was already dating his now wife. Later when we got on the dance floor we were having a good time and me and my wife were dancing together, when I noticed I was having a hard time keeping her attention on me. She kept staring off over my shoulder and looking elsewhere. Whenever I turned around to see what she was looking at, she would get my attention and ask why I kept turning around. I told her because she keeps looking over. After that, she pretty much stopped paying attention to me completely and was staring off. I turned around and her attention was on the groom. I stopped dancing and then made my way off the dance floor. Later when we brought it up, she was pretty defensive and I was definitely put off by all of it but eventually we got over it the same night.

Then couple days later, we went to a dinner party and ran into one of my best friends and his wife. We all chatted a little bit and took pictures etc. After we left, my wife asked me how to spell his name so she could add him on social media, I told her but also asked why aren’t you adding his wife, why him. She said she was gonna add both of them. I didn’t think much of it. Then this morning my wife sends me a dance video of my friend from his Facebook album from 3 years ago. I asked why she was creeping on my friends photos from years ago and she blows it off and says she’s just being friendly and looking at his photos. But she made it a point to scroll through years of his photos..

I understand I might just be a little insecure. But her creeping on his photos, combined with her staring off at another dude almost the entire time we were dancing the other night, can’t help but make me feel like somethings off.. since then she’s been extra nice to me which makes me feel like she’s feeling guilty about something.

Submitted May 28, 2019 at 09:42PM

So basically sometimes but especially lately I’ve been feeling insecure or jealous about my wife with other guys. I’ve been feeling really confident but recently we went to my wife’s friends wedding. She’s friends with both the bride and groom and she kept speaking highly of them on the way. I didn’t think much of it, at the time. But after we got there during the speeches my wife pointed out that the groom was looking at her a little bit, and myself as well. I asked why he would be looking at me and she mentioned that he’s probably curious to see who she’s with now. Again I didn’t think too too much of it, as she met him when he was already dating his now wife. Later when we got on the dance floor we were having a good time and me and my wife were dancing together, when I noticed I was having a hard time keeping her attention on me. She kept staring off over my shoulder and looking elsewhere. Whenever I turned around to see what she was looking at, she would get my attention and ask why I kept turning around. I told her because she keeps looking over. After that, she pretty much stopped paying attention to me completely and was staring off. I turned around and her attention was on the groom. I stopped dancing and then made my way off the dance floor. Later when we brought it up, she was pretty defensive and I was definitely put off by all of it but eventually we got over it the same night.Then couple days later, we went to a dinner party and ran into one of my best friends and his wife. We all chatted a little bit and took pictures etc. After we left, my wife asked me how to spell his name so she could add him on social media, I told her but also asked why aren’t you adding his wife, why him. She said she was gonna add both of them. I didn’t think much of it. Then this morning my wife sends me a dance video of my friend from his Facebook album from 3 years ago. I asked why she was creeping on my friends photos from years ago and she blows it off and says she’s just being friendly and looking at his photos. But she made it a point to scroll through years of his photos..I understand I might just be a little insecure. But her creeping on his photos, combined with her staring off at another dude almost the entire time we were dancing the other night, can’t help but make me feel like somethings off.. since then she’s been extra nice to me which makes me feel like she’s feeling guilty about something.