I really need help. My girlfriend maybe too beautiful for me. I need advice on what to do.

Hello I'm going to explain why I need help.

My girlfriend of 3 year's is very beautiful. She's hispanic(this is important later on), and gorgeous like you wouldn't believe. How I met her would sound unbelievable, but I actually met her in summer 2016 when I was on my own for the 1st time. I was hanging with my friends in mall (we're all average looking, no girls gave us the time of day in high school), and I decided that since we're grown men for the 1st time, I'll talk to the most beautiful girl I could find. Not the best way to get a girlfriend, but I wanted to stop being more shy that year. Well minutes after that, I saw this beautiful latina that was way too much for me to even get. It would have been impossible for me to get her, but I did anyways. I was blushing like hell, and ask her out to eat somewhere. I don't know what happened then, but I got her to go eat out someplace while getting to know her. Gonna shorten now so I can get to the problem. We hit it off that same year, moved into a apartment that same year (just ask if curious), and now we are 3 year's strong.

The problem I'm having is she's very physically attractive. She has a full package(boobs, and butt), she's very active in exercise, has a amazing wardrobe, and guy's are surprised i'm with her. It's not the facts guy's are attracted to her that I'm worried(She's grown, of course she's still gonna have admirers), but it's the fact I wonder why she chose me really. I'm not muscular, i'm a geek (I still watch godzilla), a sweet guy(not very dominate), and I don't got a high end job(I push carts, and stock items). I always been rejected middle school(with 1 girl that misused me) , and high school. I frankly never expected that when I hit adult life, I start out with gorgeous girlfriend that even the most physically attractive guy's dare dream of. What can I do? I'm not gonna leave her, but should I change what I like or something like that? If you seen a past post of mine, I've been doing everything to please her (relationship wise, and sexually). Any tips & advice would be very helpful.

Edit: Forgot to add. Her family is very happy to meet. I get fed alot by them.

Edit:Last edit, When we 1st had sex early on in the relationship, she wanted me to feel good even then. If that helps any.



Submitted May 28, 2019 at 11:32PM

Hello I'm going to explain why I need help.My girlfriend of 3 year's is very beautiful. She's hispanic(this is important later on), and gorgeous like you wouldn't believe. How I met her would sound unbelievable, but I actually met her in summer 2016 when I was on my own for the 1st time. I was hanging with my friends in mall (we're all average looking, no girls gave us the time of day in high school), and I decided that since we're grown men for the 1st time, I'll talk to the most beautiful girl I could find. Not the best way to get a girlfriend, but I wanted to stop being more shy that year. Well minutes after that, I saw this beautiful latina that was way too much for me to even get. It would have been impossible for me to get her, but I did anyways. I was blushing like hell, and ask her out to eat somewhere. I don't know what happened then, but I got her to go eat out someplace while getting to know her. Gonna shorten now so I can get to the problem. We hit it off that same year, moved into a apartment that same year (just ask if curious), and now we are 3 year's strong.The problem I'm having is she's very physically attractive. She has a full package(boobs, and butt), she's very active in exercise, has a amazing wardrobe, and guy's are surprised i'm with her. It's not the facts guy's are attracted to her that I'm worried(She's grown, of course she's still gonna have admirers), but it's the fact I wonder why she chose me really. I'm not muscular, i'm a geek (I still watch godzilla), a sweet guy(not very dominate), and I don't got a high end job(I push carts, and stock items). I always been rejected middle school(with 1 girl that misused me) , and high school. I frankly never expected that when I hit adult life, I start out with gorgeous girlfriend that even the most physically attractive guy's dare dream of. What can I do? I'm not gonna leave her, but should I change what I like or something like that? If you seen a past post of mine, I've been doing everything to please her (relationship wise, and sexually). Any tips & advice would be very helpful.Edit: Forgot to add. Her family is very happy to meet. I get fed alot by them.Edit:Last edit, When we 1st had sex early on in the relationship, she wanted me to feel good even then. If that helps any.
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