I’ve (18 f) been seeing a guy (21 m) for about a month, and I think I’m falling for him?

Idk if I should tell him or what. We see each other almost every day, or every other day. It’s not just sex, we hang out and talk for hours on end. Fall asleep together. We both Get sad when he wakes up and has to leave for work. I’ve told him how I feel to an extent, that I really really like him, I feel comfortable and safe around him, and that I really enjoy his company. It’s a bit soon to be feeling this way, I don’t feel butterflies or anything, I just feel happy and comfortable when I’m with him. I genuinely like who he is as a person. He said he feels the same way about me, but like I said I didn’t tell him that I think I’m falling for him. I’ve been trying to keep myself cool and not get over my head or anything. I’ve been in 2 somewhat serious relationships before, one lasted 4 years, the other was about 6 months. But i haven’t felt this level of comfortability and whatnot with either, especially not this soon into seeing them. I’m not exactly sure what I should do, I think I’m just gonna ride it out and enjoy what comes before thinking about anything too serious.

Submitted May 28, 2019 at 11:07PM

Idk if I should tell him or what. We see each other almost every day, or every other day. It’s not just sex, we hang out and talk for hours on end. Fall asleep together. We both Get sad when he wakes up and has to leave for work. I’ve told him how I feel to an extent, that I really really like him, I feel comfortable and safe around him, and that I really enjoy his company. It’s a bit soon to be feeling this way, I don’t feel butterflies or anything, I just feel happy and comfortable when I’m with him. I genuinely like who he is as a person. He said he feels the same way about me, but like I said I didn’t tell him that I think I’m falling for him. I’ve been trying to keep myself cool and not get over my head or anything. I’ve been in 2 somewhat serious relationships before, one lasted 4 years, the other was about 6 months. But i haven’t felt this level of comfortability and whatnot with either, especially not this soon into seeing them. I’m not exactly sure what I should do, I think I’m just gonna ride it out and enjoy what comes before thinking about anything too serious.