Lost hope for ever finding another LTR?

So I’m 41 (no kids, never married) and last year my 9 year relationship ended. Am I right in my observation so far that most men my age are looking for late 20’s - early 30’s women and men in that same age range are interested in older women for hookups only? I’ve always dated younger men but now I can’t find one that wants more than casual to hookup. When I look for men around my age they don’t seem to swipe on me as often as the younger guys. What’s a girl to do??

Submitted May 08, 2019 at 06:39PM

So I’m 41 (no kids, never married) and last year my 9 year relationship ended. Am I right in my observation so far that most men my age are looking for late 20’s - early 30’s women and men in that same age range are interested in older women for hookups only? I’ve always dated younger men but now I can’t find one that wants more than casual to hookup. When I look for men around my age they don’t seem to swipe on me as often as the younger guys. What’s a girl to do??