I think I met the one..

My last relationship ended last August and I signed up for Tinder pretty reluctantly back in January. At first, everyone I matched with ended up being duds. Everything from uninteresting brick walls to a guy who stood me up. Mid March I matched with a guy who is recently divorced and has 2 biological kids and 1 step-son. I have never been married and I do not have kids. He is 34 and I am 33. We started chatting and it just never stopped...he had interesting things to talk about and we just flowed so naturally with one another, I honestly couldn’t believe it!

We just made things official...perhaps we’re moving fast, but for the fact that we sit around every time we hang out and talk for hours and laugh so much and truly enjoy each other’s company is enough for me. I haven’t felt this good in a very long time. J makes me feel needed and wanted and special to him. We have similar pasts and our connection is crazy...I am happy!

I am excited to see where things go and I am thankful for Tinder because it led me to this guy I probably would’ve never known existed. OLD can definitely be a wonderful thing, we usually just have to meet a lot of buttheads before finding that diamond in the rough. If you’re feeling down, please keep your chin up, your special someone is out there and you’ll find them. I wish you all the best of luck ❤️

Edit: This is NOT the same guy as the one who stood me up in my last post. Just to clarify!



Submitted May 08, 2019 at 05:13PM

My last relationship ended last August and I signed up for Tinder pretty reluctantly back in January. At first, everyone I matched with ended up being duds. Everything from uninteresting brick walls to a guy who stood me up. Mid March I matched with a guy who is recently divorced and has 2 biological kids and 1 step-son. I have never been married and I do not have kids. He is 34 and I am 33. We started chatting and it just never stopped...he had interesting things to talk about and we just flowed so naturally with one another, I honestly couldn’t believe it!We just made things official...perhaps we’re moving fast, but for the fact that we sit around every time we hang out and talk for hours and laugh so much and truly enjoy each other’s company is enough for me. I haven’t felt this good in a very long time. J makes me feel needed and wanted and special to him. We have similar pasts and our connection is crazy...I am happy!I am excited to see where things go and I am thankful for Tinder because it led me to this guy I probably would’ve never known existed. OLD can definitely be a wonderful thing, we usually just have to meet a lot of buttheads before finding that diamond in the rough. If you’re feeling down, please keep your chin up, your special someone is out there and you’ll find them. I wish you all the best of luck ❤️Edit: This is NOT the same guy as the one who stood me up in my last post. Just to clarify!
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