could u be in love with someone while liking someone else?

can u be in love with someone and like someone else at the same time? im so confused bc of this really messy, shitty situation im in. basically, im really hurt bc this guy told me that he liked me a lot and wanted to be with me after he and his ex broke up. i felt the same way and we talked about it. his ex and him didn’t really have a good relationship in all honesty but now he’s back together with her. he told me that he’s still in love with her and he wants to keep trying (mind u, all they do is argue from what he told me). and like he told me he’s in love with her but im buying it.

how could u be in love with someone while liking someone else. his reasoning is that he “has so much invested in that relationship and wants to keep trying” but that doesn’t sound like love to me, it sounds like fear of taking a risk. being afraid to let go. it just sucks bc i really wanted to be with him but clearly he doesn’t want me. but like when we were together i could tell he really liked me idk just the way he looked at me, the things he said, how it felt when we touched. i just feel crazy thinking that i made all these feelings up in my head. but anyway, my main question basically how could someone feel that way about two different people?



Submitted May 22, 2019 at 04:24PM

can u be in love with someone and like someone else at the same time? im so confused bc of this really messy, shitty situation im in. basically, im really hurt bc this guy told me that he liked me a lot and wanted to be with me after he and his ex broke up. i felt the same way and we talked about it. his ex and him didn’t really have a good relationship in all honesty but now he’s back together with her. he told me that he’s still in love with her and he wants to keep trying (mind u, all they do is argue from what he told me). and like he told me he’s in love with her but im buying it.how could u be in love with someone while liking someone else. his reasoning is that he “has so much invested in that relationship and wants to keep trying” but that doesn’t sound like love to me, it sounds like fear of taking a risk. being afraid to let go. it just sucks bc i really wanted to be with him but clearly he doesn’t want me. but like when we were together i could tell he really liked me idk just the way he looked at me, the things he said, how it felt when we touched. i just feel crazy thinking that i made all these feelings up in my head. but anyway, my main question basically how could someone feel that way about two different people?

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