Am I about to be ghosted or am I just an anxious fool?

I feel like I'm letting my anxiety get the better of me on this one but figured I'd see what Reddit has to say. I’m fresh out of a long-term relationship and have been hearing how shitty ghosting is. I matched with this girl last Tuesday and hit it off right away with our conversations. Decided to meet on Thursday and texted pretty much all day everyday from Tuesday until we met Thursday. We both responded to each other’s texts almost immediately. The date went extremely well (at least I thought it did). We had a ton in common, no awkward pauses in the conversation, walked around town holding hands and leaning on one another, and we even ended up having sex that night.

She said multiple times throughout the night how much she liked me, and I told her I liked her too. After sleeping together, she jokingly said I better not ghost her now. She didn’t have work Friday, so I asked if she wanted to stay over so she didn’t have to drive home at 2am. She declined and said, “don’t worry, I won’t ghost you.” I texted her Friday, which she did respond to, but she didn’t seem as interested in texting as she did the previous days. Which is understandable, I’ve been in situations where I’m just not up for texting either. On Sunday I sent her a Game of Thrones meme, we had been sharing them a lot before we met, which she never responded to. No big deal again, just a meme.

During out date we realized we work about 5 minutes from one another, and that there was a restaurant she wanted to try for lunch. So, we had discussed meeting for lunch there today, Tuesday. Come Monday, I haven’t heard anything from her since Friday, so I send a text to follow up about our Tuesday lunch. She responds saying something came up and she has to cancel. I tell her no problem, I understand and maybe we can go the next time she’s available, if she’s still interested. To just let me know. She responds with, “Will do,” and that’s the last I’ve heard from her.

I really like this girl, is it worth following up in a few days to try and reschedule? Or is it clear she is trying to distance herself without fully ghosting me? The ball is in her court and I figure if she wants to reschedule, she will reach out. If she doesn’t, well that is an answer as well. Normally I wouldn’t worry so much about a delay in texting, but it just seems completely opposite of how we were texting before our date.

Tldr: Paranoid I’m about to be ghosted

Submitted May 07, 2019 at 11:41PM

I feel like I'm letting my anxiety get the better of me on this one but figured I'd see what Reddit has to say. I’m fresh out of a long-term relationship and have been hearing how shitty ghosting is. I matched with this girl last Tuesday and hit it off right away with our conversations. Decided to meet on Thursday and texted pretty much all day everyday from Tuesday until we met Thursday. We both responded to each other’s texts almost immediately. The date went extremely well (at least I thought it did). We had a ton in common, no awkward pauses in the conversation, walked around town holding hands and leaning on one another, and we even ended up having sex that night.She said multiple times throughout the night how much she liked me, and I told her I liked her too. After sleeping together, she jokingly said I better not ghost her now. She didn’t have work Friday, so I asked if she wanted to stay over so she didn’t have to drive home at 2am. She declined and said, “don’t worry, I won’t ghost you.” I texted her Friday, which she did respond to, but she didn’t seem as interested in texting as she did the previous days. Which is understandable, I’ve been in situations where I’m just not up for texting either. On Sunday I sent her a Game of Thrones meme, we had been sharing them a lot before we met, which she never responded to. No big deal again, just a meme.During out date we realized we work about 5 minutes from one another, and that there was a restaurant she wanted to try for lunch. So, we had discussed meeting for lunch there today, Tuesday. Come Monday, I haven’t heard anything from her since Friday, so I send a text to follow up about our Tuesday lunch. She responds saying something came up and she has to cancel. I tell her no problem, I understand and maybe we can go the next time she’s available, if she’s still interested. To just let me know. She responds with, “Will do,” and that’s the last I’ve heard from her.I really like this girl, is it worth following up in a few days to try and reschedule? Or is it clear she is trying to distance herself without fully ghosting me? The ball is in her court and I figure if she wants to reschedule, she will reach out. If she doesn’t, well that is an answer as well. Normally I wouldn’t worry so much about a delay in texting, but it just seems completely opposite of how we were texting before our date.Tldr: Paranoid I’m about to be ghosted