Aaaand it’s over. 15 months, and it meant nothing to him.

My work friend sent me a link to his Match profile. He was showing as online. We had this happen once before, 4 months in, and broke up briefly. He understood that this was a deal breaker for me, and deleted his profile.

This was a new one with new photos - I even took some of them.

I drove over there and said “I need to pick up my stuff”. He said “what’s wrong?” I said “you’re on match as in right now.” He didn’t say anything. I went from room to room getting my clothes and shoes and makeup etc. I put it in a bag and said “you know this was the one thing I can’t handle. I can’t handle being cheated on again. You didn’t have to do this. Why? Why didn’t you just tell me I wasn’t enough?” And he said “I don’t want to talk about this right now.” I said “well it’s now or never, motherfucker.” Silence. So I walked out the door with my stuff and said “I hope you find someone that makes you happy.” Closed the door. Didn’t even slam it. And now I am destroyed.

Submitted May 08, 2019 at 01:39AM

My work friend sent me a link to his Match profile. He was showing as online. We had this happen once before, 4 months in, and broke up briefly. He understood that this was a deal breaker for me, and deleted his profile.This was a new one with new photos - I even took some of them.I drove over there and said “I need to pick up my stuff”. He said “what’s wrong?” I said “you’re on match as in right now.” He didn’t say anything. I went from room to room getting my clothes and shoes and makeup etc. I put it in a bag and said “you know this was the one thing I can’t handle. I can’t handle being cheated on again. You didn’t have to do this. Why? Why didn’t you just tell me I wasn’t enough?” And he said “I don’t want to talk about this right now.” I said “well it’s now or never, motherfucker.” Silence. So I walked out the door with my stuff and said “I hope you find someone that makes you happy.” Closed the door. Didn’t even slam it. And now I am destroyed.