Tips after first date with a girl

So I just came back from first date with a girl.

The way we met is she bought something from me on letgo. I continued talking to her after it, been playful and I feel like my approach was 10/10 regarding texting. Later on she told me she was flattered because I continued talking to her regardless of the fact that she didnt have any makeup when we met for the sale. She also gave signs that she is interested in relationship. I been very playful, arraged first date in a very smooth way.

So the day for our first date came. I told her that we could grab a cocktail in a bar and go to park after it. We started talking about what we do etc and at one point I realised conversation just started losing the flirty vibe we had while texting. As we were in the bar we were sitting opposite, so I kept good eye contact and let her talk most of the time, trying to prove myself as good listener.

As we left bar and went to park, we sat next to each other, but at that point I felt like vibe is gone. I threw in some flirty lines from time to time, but they felt like she wasnt interested like while texting. I tried to hold eye contact in order to find a moment to go in for a kiss, but she didnt really go with it, so we didnt kiss.

We left with hug. As I was walking home I felt somehow dissapointed, because I really liked the girl, both personality and appearance. I didnt really know what to text her so I just went with "Im glad that we went out, was great time with you". She replied "Same :) ".

At this point I'm very confused and have no idea if I should just let her or continue talking to her. Also if you think I should persist, I have no idea on what way, because I feel like I didnt leave that confident vibe like I did as we were texting before date.

Submitted May 20, 2019 at 12:38AM

So I just came back from first date with a girl.The way we met is she bought something from me on letgo. I continued talking to her after it, been playful and I feel like my approach was 10/10 regarding texting. Later on she told me she was flattered because I continued talking to her regardless of the fact that she didnt have any makeup when we met for the sale. She also gave signs that she is interested in relationship. I been very playful, arraged first date in a very smooth way.So the day for our first date came. I told her that we could grab a cocktail in a bar and go to park after it. We started talking about what we do etc and at one point I realised conversation just started losing the flirty vibe we had while texting. As we were in the bar we were sitting opposite, so I kept good eye contact and let her talk most of the time, trying to prove myself as good listener.As we left bar and went to park, we sat next to each other, but at that point I felt like vibe is gone. I threw in some flirty lines from time to time, but they felt like she wasnt interested like while texting. I tried to hold eye contact in order to find a moment to go in for a kiss, but she didnt really go with it, so we didnt kiss.We left with hug. As I was walking home I felt somehow dissapointed, because I really liked the girl, both personality and appearance. I didnt really know what to text her so I just went with "Im glad that we went out, was great time with you". She replied "Same :) ".At this point I'm very confused and have no idea if I should just let her or continue talking to her. Also if you think I should persist, I have no idea on what way, because I feel like I didnt leave that confident vibe like I did as we were texting before date.