Feel trapped and don’t know how to escape.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. She’s 18 and I’m 19. In the beginning she did lots of cheating and sent nudes to dozens of guys behind my back. For the past few months things have been going very smoothly but there are a few things that bother me and she doesn’t care no matter how much I talk to her about it. 1. She’s obsessed with boy bands. It’s annoying. I know she’d drop me for Harry styles or some other dude like that. 2. When I tried to distance myself from her she threatened me with suicide and her mother was threatening me and made me into a monster to half her family. 3. And most importantly. She’s a very chunky girl which I don’t mind. There’s nothing wrong with being big. But her mother is over 400 pounds and she eats so much junk food, I’m worried she’ll get up there and I’ll have to take care of her just like her mothers husband does. I’ve talked to her about how much sugar she puts in cereal and tea and how much junk she eats and she doesn’t care. I feel like I’m wasting my time with her and I wish I had left when she first cheated. What do I do? Any comments are appreciated both negative and positive

EDIT: Thank you all. Ive mustered up the courage to end it. I already feel. A huge wave of relief. This is a big change for me and im glad to be in control of my future and myself. ❤ i love you all. Take care

Submitted May 19, 2019 at 10:52PM

I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. She’s 18 and I’m 19. In the beginning she did lots of cheating and sent nudes to dozens of guys behind my back. For the past few months things have been going very smoothly but there are a few things that bother me and she doesn’t care no matter how much I talk to her about it. 1. She’s obsessed with boy bands. It’s annoying. I know she’d drop me for Harry styles or some other dude like that. 2. When I tried to distance myself from her she threatened me with suicide and her mother was threatening me and made me into a monster to half her family. 3. And most importantly. She’s a very chunky girl which I don’t mind. There’s nothing wrong with being big. But her mother is over 400 pounds and she eats so much junk food, I’m worried she’ll get up there and I’ll have to take care of her just like her mothers husband does. I’ve talked to her about how much sugar she puts in cereal and tea and how much junk she eats and she doesn’t care. I feel like I’m wasting my time with her and I wish I had left when she first cheated. What do I do? Any comments are appreciated both negative and positiveEDIT: Thank you all. Ive mustered up the courage to end it. I already feel. A huge wave of relief. This is a big change for me and im glad to be in control of my future and myself. ❤ i love you all. Take care