Should I continue seeing this guy?

I’ve been talking to this one guy for about a few weeks now. Prior to meeting up, we exchange texts a lot, and he asked about what I was looking for. I told him “I am looking for something serious, but not going to force it”. I asked him the same question, and he said “I’m just going with the flow, but I do know what I want and do not like”. I don’t really get what he was trying to get here? I’ve dated someone in the past who said the exact same thing, and it turned out that person didn’t like “labels”.

On our first date, he told me that he is a one-on-one type of guy, as in, he finds it hard to date multiple people. So he prefers for the female to do the same. I notice he cracks some sexual jokes, but jokingly apologizes because it’s his humor. He is a flirty/touchy guy. He wanted to split the bill. His reasoning was “I don’t want to be the victim if the female goes on a date with me and I pay- only then to have her ghost me”. I personally don’t mind splitting, but I believe that if a guy is classy he would demand to pay for first date at least.

For all of our dates, we always split the bill. Yesterday, I went on my third date with him. We got drinks and we were pretty much all over each other (hugging, holding hands, kissing). Today, I have yet to receive a text from him. I don’t know if I’m just overthinking or what. Do you think there are some red flags?

Submitted May 20, 2019 at 01:35AM

I’ve been talking to this one guy for about a few weeks now. Prior to meeting up, we exchange texts a lot, and he asked about what I was looking for. I told him “I am looking for something serious, but not going to force it”. I asked him the same question, and he said “I’m just going with the flow, but I do know what I want and do not like”. I don’t really get what he was trying to get here? I’ve dated someone in the past who said the exact same thing, and it turned out that person didn’t like “labels”.On our first date, he told me that he is a one-on-one type of guy, as in, he finds it hard to date multiple people. So he prefers for the female to do the same. I notice he cracks some sexual jokes, but jokingly apologizes because it’s his humor. He is a flirty/touchy guy. He wanted to split the bill. His reasoning was “I don’t want to be the victim if the female goes on a date with me and I pay- only then to have her ghost me”. I personally don’t mind splitting, but I believe that if a guy is classy he would demand to pay for first date at least.For all of our dates, we always split the bill. Yesterday, I went on my third date with him. We got drinks and we were pretty much all over each other (hugging, holding hands, kissing). Today, I have yet to receive a text from him. I don’t know if I’m just overthinking or what. Do you think there are some red flags?