Suspicious about single status

Hi all, I’ve (F37) been dating a guy (M36) since January. I’m mostly happy with how it’s going, but there are a couple things that have aroused my suspicions about whether he might have a girlfriend/wife/something else. When we are together he very often turns his phone to airplane mode for the whole night, there are times when we’re not together that he goes off the grid for a day/night with no contact, and he has more than one Facebook page. I know they are not major things, and I know I should ask him directly but right now I’m not going to for reasons! My question is, for those who have found out they are the ‘other’ woman/man (or one of many); in hindsight what are the reddish flags that you should have picked up on or trusted your gut about?



Submitted April 14, 2019 at 12:07AM

Hi all, I’ve (F37) been dating a guy (M36) since January. I’m mostly happy with how it’s going, but there are a couple things that have aroused my suspicions about whether he might have a girlfriend/wife/something else. When we are together he very often turns his phone to airplane mode for the whole night, there are times when we’re not together that he goes off the grid for a day/night with no contact, and he has more than one Facebook page. I know they are not major things, and I know I should ask him directly but right now I’m not going to for reasons! My question is, for those who have found out they are the ‘other’ woman/man (or one of many); in hindsight what are the reddish flags that you should have picked up on or trusted your gut about?

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