She called it off tonight ... wanted some advice please

For about three weeks I had been seeing this person with whom I match very well. We dated, had sex a few times, and enjoyed each other's company. But she called it off tonight. I asked her for feedback so that I can better my future approach to relationships. See, I have never been in a relationship before, and I am thirty-eight. She told me that I didn't make it obvious to her that I wanted to be in a committed relationship. She told me that after the first date I should decide if I want to be in a committed relationship with someone. That thing about the first date sounds like BS to me. Is it?

Submitted April 14, 2019 at 01:40AM

For about three weeks I had been seeing this person with whom I match very well. We dated, had sex a few times, and enjoyed each other's company. But she called it off tonight. I asked her for feedback so that I can better my future approach to relationships. See, I have never been in a relationship before, and I am thirty-eight. She told me that I didn't make it obvious to her that I wanted to be in a committed relationship. She told me that after the first date I should decide if I want to be in a committed relationship with someone. That thing about the first date sounds like BS to me. Is it?