Phone call for first time

This is kind of weird for me. I'm ashamed to admit I've been out of the game for going on 4 years now. Busy with college and work - trying to keep my debt low. I have a lot more free time now since I graduated, and am pursuing another girlfriend. I met a girl on Tinder (please leave your reservations about this app aside lol) and she seemed really nice and liked my pickup lines. She gave me her snapchat almost instantly and today we had a phone call. I never really was much of a phone caller with the whopping 2 girlfriends I've even had in my life (22) so my question is in regards to your thoughts on how you think it went. Obviously based off the details below.

So she called me and we said hi and what not then got into talking about her job, then my job, and what be basically enjoy doing. You know, average chatty stuff. She seemed pretty chuckly but Idk if this was just reactionary, resultant of the (at least my perspective) very subtle backdrop of awkwardness on the conversation. I always, habitually sprinkle in my self deprecating jokes almost around every corner so I made her laugh several times. We then got into when each other was free and she was quick to say she was free this weekend, which ignited some motivation. So I made some suggestions on stuff we could go do, like fishing, kayaking, hiking, biking (basically outdoors stuff I do with my friends a lot). I think I kinda pressed on that a little too much because I really wanted get her confirmation on a date and time. And for some reason she seemed to have took a turn and all of a sudden mentioned she had a relative visiting from out of town (yes I know, common excuse) on Thursday leading into the weekend. I said ok well let me know when we can do something then. She then said she wants to talk more because apparently we haven't talked enough before we meet in person. And she said to continue texting/snapchatting her.

So I have mixed feelings here. Part of me simply thinks something went wrong and I'm losing her, but then other part feels like maybe we should just talk and have more conversations. Get to know each other more. What are your thoughts? Please don't berate me, I'm looking for solid, friendly advice as to what, if anything, I might've done wrong and what I I should do now moving forward hopefully in an effort to reel her back in.

Submitted May 14, 2019 at 04:47AM

This is kind of weird for me. I'm ashamed to admit I've been out of the game for going on 4 years now. Busy with college and work - trying to keep my debt low. I have a lot more free time now since I graduated, and am pursuing another girlfriend. I met a girl on Tinder (please leave your reservations about this app aside lol) and she seemed really nice and liked my pickup lines. She gave me her snapchat almost instantly and today we had a phone call. I never really was much of a phone caller with the whopping 2 girlfriends I've even had in my life (22) so my question is in regards to your thoughts on how you think it went. Obviously based off the details below.So she called me and we said hi and what not then got into talking about her job, then my job, and what be basically enjoy doing. You know, average chatty stuff. She seemed pretty chuckly but Idk if this was just reactionary, resultant of the (at least my perspective) very subtle backdrop of awkwardness on the conversation. I always, habitually sprinkle in my self deprecating jokes almost around every corner so I made her laugh several times. We then got into when each other was free and she was quick to say she was free this weekend, which ignited some motivation. So I made some suggestions on stuff we could go do, like fishing, kayaking, hiking, biking (basically outdoors stuff I do with my friends a lot). I think I kinda pressed on that a little too much because I really wanted get her confirmation on a date and time. And for some reason she seemed to have took a turn and all of a sudden mentioned she had a relative visiting from out of town (yes I know, common excuse) on Thursday leading into the weekend. I said ok well let me know when we can do something then. She then said she wants to talk more because apparently we haven't talked enough before we meet in person. And she said to continue texting/snapchatting her.So I have mixed feelings here. Part of me simply thinks something went wrong and I'm losing her, but then other part feels like maybe we should just talk and have more conversations. Get to know each other more. What are your thoughts? Please don't berate me, I'm looking for solid, friendly advice as to what, if anything, I might've done wrong and what I I should do now moving forward hopefully in an effort to reel her back in.