Is he cheating on me?

My husband and I have been married for two years and have an 11 month old son. Our marriage overall has been amazing, I love my husband very much but it’s really starting to look like he’s cheating on me. We moved away from my family right before we got married and lived in his hometown for almost two years, I was miserable the whole time but we were broke and couldn’t move. Shortly after my son was born I found Ashley Madison on his frequented websites. I kind of brushed it off (we use kissanime and they often have Ashely Madison pop ups) but I just felt like he was lying to me and never really forgave him. When we were first dating I found out about him using Facebook to add pretty girls so he could jerk off to their pictures, message women and send nudes back and forth (he said he did this before we got together). We had just started getting serious so I asked him to deactivate it and he did, I checked his phone and that profile never showed up on a search. A few days ago that Facebook account he was using popped up as one of my suggested friends list. He swears he has nothing to do with it, that it couldn’t be him and that he hasn’t done anything remotely unfaithful. I’m having such a hard time and my gut keeps telling me he’s lying. Anything remotely related to him and other women happens after we’ve had a bad fight.

TLDR; have found Ashely Madison in my husband’s computer history and an old Facebook profile of his that was deactivated because of other women is suddenly active again. He denies he’s cheating. How likely is it he’s telling the truth?



Submitted May 03, 2019 at 03:05AM

My husband and I have been married for two years and have an 11 month old son. Our marriage overall has been amazing, I love my husband very much but it’s really starting to look like he’s cheating on me. We moved away from my family right before we got married and lived in his hometown for almost two years, I was miserable the whole time but we were broke and couldn’t move. Shortly after my son was born I found Ashley Madison on his frequented websites. I kind of brushed it off (we use kissanime and they often have Ashely Madison pop ups) but I just felt like he was lying to me and never really forgave him. When we were first dating I found out about him using Facebook to add pretty girls so he could jerk off to their pictures, message women and send nudes back and forth (he said he did this before we got together). We had just started getting serious so I asked him to deactivate it and he did, I checked his phone and that profile never showed up on a search. A few days ago that Facebook account he was using popped up as one of my suggested friends list. He swears he has nothing to do with it, that it couldn’t be him and that he hasn’t done anything remotely unfaithful. I’m having such a hard time and my gut keeps telling me he’s lying. Anything remotely related to him and other women happens after we’ve had a bad fight.TLDR; have found Ashely Madison in my husband’s computer history and an old Facebook profile of his that was deactivated because of other women is suddenly active again. He denies he’s cheating. How likely is it he’s telling the truth?
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