Does anyone feel undeserving of a relationship because they're not attractive?

As a woman, its hard to not feel like your attractiveness is the only thing that matters. If I were a guy and making a post about how I feel unattractive and this girl is out of my league, everyone would encourage me to go for her and that leagues don't matter though. As a girl though, no one gives me that advice. Everywhere its portrayed of the awkward ugly guy getting the hot girl and all of that. As a below average girl though, you're mostly ignored. I go through the Tinder threads and every time the guy says he wants to get serious, it's because the girl's hot. The first thing he mentions is always how gorgeous the girl is. Honestly, like I'm trying to become more attractive and all that right now but it still feels hopeless a lot.

Submitted May 03, 2019 at 07:06AM

As a woman, its hard to not feel like your attractiveness is the only thing that matters. If I were a guy and making a post about how I feel unattractive and this girl is out of my league, everyone would encourage me to go for her and that leagues don't matter though. As a girl though, no one gives me that advice. Everywhere its portrayed of the awkward ugly guy getting the hot girl and all of that. As a below average girl though, you're mostly ignored. I go through the Tinder threads and every time the guy says he wants to get serious, it's because the girl's hot. The first thing he mentions is always how gorgeous the girl is. Honestly, like I'm trying to become more attractive and all that right now but it still feels hopeless a lot.