I really like this girl and we have a great connection; however, she is giving me mixed signals.

Okay, so I am not the person who talks during school, especially during class; however, I’ve liked this girl for about 4 months now and she has been the highlight of my day. She has made me into a better and more confident person. I see her everyday when we go to school and I sit in front of her during our math period. I ask about her favorite music and have even asked for suggestions too. I ask about her day, her favorite hobbies, ect. just to get to know her more. She has started to tease me a little bit, and laugh at the most dumbest comments I make. I feel like we have gotten closer and she even waits for me to walk with her after class is over (which used to never happen). I catch her looking at me in class and she gets red when I talk to her. Over the past four months I have learned more about this girl and I have fallen for her even more. She’s starting to make more eye contact with me when I talk to her and I see her smile every time I look at her (which makes my knees nearly buckle). She’s smart, kind-hearted, beautiful, and funny.

She’s a great listener, but is an introvert, so it creates a small problem with talking to her. She doesn’t really ask anything about me. I always start the conversation, or I would always ask her questions, but she never asks about my day or how I am doing. I don’t know if this is normal, but it kind of makes me feel a little upset. She has the most adorable smile and laugh I have ever seen and heard. I really like her, but I just don’t see it working out unfortunately. She makes my day worthwhile and I want to become better friends and hopefully more in the future.

What should I do?



Submitted May 03, 2019 at 04:40AM

Okay, so I am not the person who talks during school, especially during class; however, I’ve liked this girl for about 4 months now and she has been the highlight of my day. She has made me into a better and more confident person. I see her everyday when we go to school and I sit in front of her during our math period. I ask about her favorite music and have even asked for suggestions too. I ask about her day, her favorite hobbies, ect. just to get to know her more. She has started to tease me a little bit, and laugh at the most dumbest comments I make. I feel like we have gotten closer and she even waits for me to walk with her after class is over (which used to never happen). I catch her looking at me in class and she gets red when I talk to her. Over the past four months I have learned more about this girl and I have fallen for her even more. She’s starting to make more eye contact with me when I talk to her and I see her smile every time I look at her (which makes my knees nearly buckle). She’s smart, kind-hearted, beautiful, and funny.She’s a great listener, but is an introvert, so it creates a small problem with talking to her. She doesn’t really ask anything about me. I always start the conversation, or I would always ask her questions, but she never asks about my day or how I am doing. I don’t know if this is normal, but it kind of makes me feel a little upset. She has the most adorable smile and laugh I have ever seen and heard. I really like her, but I just don’t see it working out unfortunately. She makes my day worthwhile and I want to become better friends and hopefully more in the future.What should I do?
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