How do I seduce my wife more when her only interest is Reddit?

I'm always trying to find things to aid in my seduction game with my wife, but she has no hobbies, and her interests need to be done on her terms. She likes to sing, write, and draw, but she only does the first one occasionally and is too self conscious to even do karaoke, and the two latter interest she hasn't done since before we married. I have no idea how to make a lame person interesting, and she's continuously unhappy with our sex life, when the only effort she puts in is to jerk me off a little before sex, then complains we don't do slow build ups anymore. Sex is so routine, and I just can't seem to make it not with this woman. She is in a perpetual stagnation from her own self-conscious fear, and desire to do more things for herself.

She doesn't work out or eat well, but complains she's overweight; thinks she's super interesting and fun, but doesn't leave the apartment and stays within 10 inches of her phone all day; wants to take sex slow and passionate, but breaks out the vibrator and wants to go fast. Complains that I treat her like she could be anybody, when, well.... She very well could be.

How have you made sex more interesting in you're marriage?

Submitted May 22, 2019 at 12:36AM

I'm always trying to find things to aid in my seduction game with my wife, but she has no hobbies, and her interests need to be done on her terms. She likes to sing, write, and draw, but she only does the first one occasionally and is too self conscious to even do karaoke, and the two latter interest she hasn't done since before we married. I have no idea how to make a lame person interesting, and she's continuously unhappy with our sex life, when the only effort she puts in is to jerk me off a little before sex, then complains we don't do slow build ups anymore. Sex is so routine, and I just can't seem to make it not with this woman. She is in a perpetual stagnation from her own self-conscious fear, and desire to do more things for herself.She doesn't work out or eat well, but complains she's overweight; thinks she's super interesting and fun, but doesn't leave the apartment and stays within 10 inches of her phone all day; wants to take sex slow and passionate, but breaks out the vibrator and wants to go fast. Complains that I treat her like she could be anybody, when, well.... She very well could be.How have you made sex more interesting in you're marriage?